"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To do if she flopped?

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nice_guyeh

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Says shes down to chill. But not really..

First time told her to hang out she flopped cause she drove a friend home who was hammered.

Secondtime,says long day of work and horseback riding,or whatever...not down


Should i go quite for a bit?

Thanks guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jester1x

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Her interest in you is lukewarm to non-existent. I'd quit asking and quit contacting her for a bit. She if she initiates anything with you. You'll get your answer either way.

I don't mean to sound harsh but I even have to remind myself that you don't have to remind or keep bugging women who are truly interested in getting to know you better. If they are interested in you, they'll will set aside some time for you unless they are laid up in the hospital unconscious. Even then they'll probably visit you in a dream. ;)
 
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There's a good Jophil quote around here, I know it's in someone's sig here but it goes something a long the lines of "Don't reward a woman who flaked with the opportunity to do it again"..

Women with high interest don't flake.

-Scars
 
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she's not interested or attracted, thats why she flaked. she was just being polite. girls that are attracted dont flake period point blank. learn to build more attraction. also when you ask a girl out make it specific, dont say lets hang out sometime. it says to the girl i'm indecisive, and i'm not confident that she'll say yes. its also a low investment and gives the girl any number of reasons to flake.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JohnChops

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Scars said:
There's a good Jophil quote around here, I know it's in someone's sig here but it goes something a long the lines of "Don't reward a woman who flaked with the opportunity to do it again"..

Women with high interest don't flake.

-Scars
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That quote is amazing Scars. Put that to memory. Once and she's done. I've given girls multiple chances and I regret it all. They don't deserve your time, THEY DO NOT DESERVE TO WASTE YOUR TIME.
 
VladPatton

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You tried twice, that's enough. Her interest is not there, or she would of definitely went with you on attempt number 2. Time to move on, unfortunately.
 
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