PVSSY-EATER
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Diablo, you are the moderator and everything, but closing that guys thread was uncalled for...okay....grow up!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The DomMega
Don Juan
My newest thread deals with the same topic. Thats falls within the realm of "anything else" so right now you're just trying to flex your nuts and probably making that cat dislike us even more.
Brilliant.
Brilliant.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Actually, he was doing his job. He is suppose to be closing threads like that.
Any other moderator would have also, except that he happened to get there first.
I suppose you could always take it up with Allan if in fact you feel that it was unfair.
Any other moderator would have also, except that he happened to get there first.
I suppose you could always take it up with Allan if in fact you feel that it was unfair.
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
I understand what you're saying.....but the guy was asking a question and appeared to really be bothered with it, and instead of caring and at least GIVING A DAMN, he just closed the damn thing. Hell, this site has helped me a lot and giving me a lot of insight! Some guys that come here are really hurting and could even be on the burge of suicide, and just to ignore them and not help them, is just GOD DAMN SELFISH, AND GOD DAMN STUPID. And thats my take on it. - Pvssyeater
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I don't know if I entirely agree with you, but I am glad to see someone who actually gives a d@mn about people and doesn't abide by that 'survival of the fittest' crap or that 'there can be only one' alpha male sh;t that plagues this forum like some maddening plague.
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