PVSSY-EATER
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Diablo, you are the moderator and everything, but closing that guys thread was uncalled for...okay....grow up!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
To Diablo
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The DomMega
Don Juan
My newest thread deals with the same topic. Thats falls within the realm of "anything else" so right now you're just trying to flex your nuts and probably making that cat dislike us even more.
Brilliant.
Brilliant.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Actually, he was doing his job. He is suppose to be closing threads like that.
Any other moderator would have also, except that he happened to get there first.
I suppose you could always take it up with Allan if in fact you feel that it was unfair.
Any other moderator would have also, except that he happened to get there first.
I suppose you could always take it up with Allan if in fact you feel that it was unfair.
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
I understand what you're saying.....but the guy was asking a question and appeared to really be bothered with it, and instead of caring and at least GIVING A DAMN, he just closed the damn thing. Hell, this site has helped me a lot and giving me a lot of insight! Some guys that come here are really hurting and could even be on the burge of suicide, and just to ignore them and not help them, is just GOD DAMN SELFISH, AND GOD DAMN STUPID. And thats my take on it. - Pvssyeater
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I don't know if I entirely agree with you, but I am glad to see someone who actually gives a d@mn about people and doesn't abide by that 'survival of the fittest' crap or that 'there can be only one' alpha male sh;t that plagues this forum like some maddening plague.
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