KermitTheFr0g
Banned
Unfortunately for you. You're irrelevant.Explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to me.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unfortunately for you. You're irrelevant.Explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes, and this is my problem. Even people in prison told me I needed anger management. It's not social anxiety, it's more what comes out of my mouth after that.you get angry at people
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I've seen the world. There's nowhere I could go right now that I haven't seen before, aside from visiting another country.joined May 25 2017
2155 posts divided by 6 months
= 359.16
359.16 posts divided by 30 days
= 11.97
Averaging 12 posts a day for the last 6 months.
maybe stop asking so many questions and go explore the world.
No thanks. Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond. Why is her other patient more important than me? Why does she feel that her time is more valuable than mine?Still waiting for my insults to be quoted....
then put the phone down.I've seen the world. There's nowhere I could go right now that I haven't seen before, aside from visiting another country.
Again, it's called a SMART PHONE.
Why are you seeing a psychologist then?But I'm not mentally ill. And who are you again?
What mental illness do I have? I'm curious.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Okay I'll show you this when it's done. Done by my bare hands. And I was just looking at other listings sent to me, now that I have confidence in the process and my ability to do the work, could profit $75,000 next time.All this work and you've still made $0 flipping houses.
well, having social anxiety may very well manifest itself in anger. not all ppl wth social anxiety withdraw and turn into wall paper. social anxiety is a mechanism of protecting oneself from becoming toll vulnerable and risking getting hurt. social anxiety is about fear. being openly angry is also about being fearful. by being angry you also push people away.Yes, and this is my problem. Even people in prison told me I needed anger management. It's not social anxiety, it's more what comes out of my mouth after that.
Therefore, desinova's diagnosis of my problem as social anxiety is incorrect. Not to mention that I never invited him to be my personal coach in the first place. He just decided to make himself that one day.
If I had social anxiety, could I meet two girls who were complete strangers and have a threesome with them? I've been to sex parties where 50 people are in a hotel room walking around naked.
I may have a problem with "small talk," however...
Also, on the subject of "social anxiety," I think you may underestimate the amount that everyone is a psycho and it's probably smart to be wary of them. It's pretty naive to think that everyone wants to be your friend if you smile at them.
you know, ill just casually mention that you could have chosen to cultivate this relationship with @Desdinova into something amicable, or even tried to mold it into something positive. Just because two people have a moment of disagreement doesnt mean that the relationship has to cave.No thanks. Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond. Why is her other patient more important than me? Why does she feel that her time is more valuable than mine?
Don't answer. I don't care what you think.
Your self-image is in the toilet, for one thing. When you're bragging about the things you are good at, it is yourself that you are trying to convince. I'm not saying anything you said is untrue. I don't think it is. I seem to believe you more than you believe yourself.What mental illness do I have? I'm curious.
No, they don't deserve me because they are stupid weak little girls lip synching the words to stupid hip-hop songs, and probably have a total of 3 brain cells that are coated in alcohol most of the time.well, having social anxiety may very well manifest itself in anger. not all ppl wth social anxiety withdraw and turn into wall paper. social anxiety is a mechanism of protecting oneself from becoming toll vulnerable and risking getting hurt. social anxiety is about fear. being openly angry is also about being fearful. by being angry you also push people away.
From what I have seen you post, you were able to have a 3 some because you paid and knew it was a done deal. You controlled the whole scenario, controlled the whole situation.
Meeting women socially in order to try to woo them (in whatever capacity you want to woo them) is you putting yourself in a position of being totally not in control. It's the 'not being in control' part that causes you anxiety. it's the rejection factor, even the potential rejection factor, that you are fearful of, that comes out as anger about 'these people', how they are boring, dont deserve you, dont understand your value. These are all coping mechanisms you use when you feel rejection.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Everything you just said is inaccurate.Your self-image is in the toilet, for one thing. When you're bragging about the things you are good at, it is yourself that you are trying to convince. I'm not saying anything you said is untrue. I don't think it is. I seem to believe you more than you believe yourself.
Your anger issues at the world, and especially at women, are a projection of your own issues with yourself.
I'd say weed would at least calm you down, but you've probably already tried that. Eat an edible if you have never tried one. You're in Florida, right? I used to live there. Mushrooms grow in every cow field. Psilocyn/psilocybin actually shows tremendous promise as a medical drug. Eat a big handful of those mushrooms and spend an evening pondering your life. Do not drive or operate heavy machinery, and stay away from power tools. It may give you a new perspective on life.
Had you asked me at the time, I would have been advising you to not melt your brain with all that sh!tty acid. This was in Florida? They have the worst quality stuff. Mushrooms are a completely different thing. And the active ingredient in them is in human clinical trials right now as a treatment for PTSD and depression.It is terrible advice to tell me, or anyone, to do drugs.
I did lots of mushrooms too.Had you asked me at the time, I would have been advising you to not melt your brain with all that sh!tty acid. This was in Florida? They have the worst quality stuff. Mushrooms are a completely different thing. And the active ingredient in them is in human clinical trials right now as a treatment for PTSD and depression.
Post something that shows you're putting in some effort in the real world. Talk about a female you chatted up, talk about how you got another girl's number, talk about a coffee date you went on, ANYTHING other than bytching about girls, yourself, and life.Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.