Well recently I heard that this girl I know started liking me and I figured "Hey, she's woth a shot." We've talked a few times since then and have been making tenative date plans and such. Anyways, the other day I heard that she has plans to go to a movie with another guy. She (and her friends) say that he is just a FRIEND and that she made the plans with him before school let out (and before she was interested in me). I am uncertain whether or not to confront her about this. If I do confront her I will just tell her that I don't think that this is okay and that she should not do this again in the future, but that she doesn't have to cancel this time. If I don't confront her, I would hope that she would naturally not make any more plans with this guy. I don't want to be overprotective, but I won't put up with her seeing someone else, even if SHE THINKS its just a friend thing. Can anyone give me advice on this situation?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
To Confront or Not to Confront - That is the Question of the Day
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
InsidiousNstinct
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Yeah...stop over re-acting. Your getting jealous, put the fire out before it spreads.
Trust me man stuff like this just eats you up, did the samething to me. Don't be getting all bent out of shape.
spooky....my 666 post.
SO you're dating or are y'all just planing dates? Either way nowhere in the laws of love and war does it say a perticipent (spelling) may only go out with one person. Unless, however, both have decided to a RELATIONSHIP. Even then its DOG eat DOG.
Trust me man stuff like this just eats you up, did the samething to me. Don't be getting all bent out of shape.
spooky....my 666 post.
WLDB
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If she is truly interested in you then dont worry.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Well ask her how much you mean to here and ask for only sincerety. If she truly likes you you have absolutly nothing to worry about. She should be able to go and do stuff with other males as long as they aren't romantically involved. Easiest thing to do is ask all her friends and see if their stories match up. I noticed girls are gossips and blabler mouths.
Marshal-H, about the askign her friends about it, thats not a good idea cause then her friends are gonna tell her and then its gonna be worse than if you just confronted her about it cause shes gonna think you dont have the balls to do it. And is it a good idea to "ask her how much you mean to her" (this is for more experienced DJ's to answer)