Well recently I heard that this girl I know started liking me and I figured "Hey, she's woth a shot." We've talked a few times since then and have been making tenative date plans and such. Anyways, the other day I heard that she has plans to go to a movie with another guy. She (and her friends) say that he is just a FRIEND and that she made the plans with him before school let out (and before she was interested in me). I am uncertain whether or not to confront her about this. If I do confront her I will just tell her that I don't think that this is okay and that she should not do this again in the future, but that she doesn't have to cancel this time. If I don't confront her, I would hope that she would naturally not make any more plans with this guy. I don't want to be overprotective, but I won't put up with her seeing someone else, even if SHE THINKS its just a friend thing. Can anyone give me advice on this situation?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
To Confront or Not to Confront - That is the Question of the Day
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
InsidiousNstinct
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Yeah...stop over re-acting. Your getting jealous, put the fire out before it spreads.
Trust me man stuff like this just eats you up, did the samething to me. Don't be getting all bent out of shape.
spooky....my 666 post.
SO you're dating or are y'all just planing dates? Either way nowhere in the laws of love and war does it say a perticipent (spelling) may only go out with one person. Unless, however, both have decided to a RELATIONSHIP. Even then its DOG eat DOG.
Trust me man stuff like this just eats you up, did the samething to me. Don't be getting all bent out of shape.
spooky....my 666 post.
WLDB
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If she is truly interested in you then dont worry.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Marshall-H
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Well ask her how much you mean to here and ask for only sincerety. If she truly likes you you have absolutly nothing to worry about. She should be able to go and do stuff with other males as long as they aren't romantically involved. Easiest thing to do is ask all her friends and see if their stories match up. I noticed girls are gossips and blabler mouths.
Marshal-H, about the askign her friends about it, thats not a good idea cause then her friends are gonna tell her and then its gonna be worse than if you just confronted her about it cause shes gonna think you dont have the balls to do it. And is it a good idea to "ask her how much you mean to her" (this is for more experienced DJ's to answer)