"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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to cheat or not to cheat?

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Originally posted by CharmaLeo
Cheat, you are a man and it is your obligation. It is your God-given right. Just don't let her find out.
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Anyone who doesn't cheat on their girlfriend should be arrested and deported.
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Morons.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you're dating - and seeing two people that's ok. but if you're in a relationship.. man you don't need that stress. the stress is not worth it.
 
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Just to give an idea of how harsh cheating really is... in the bible (I know it holds little weight in this day and age) condemned adulterers to death.

PS... I am not catholic either, but the bible does offer some truths worth living by.
 
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I walked around the weight room waiting to build up the nerve to go over there and give her a hug. I even said something like "I'm kind of nervous about this [going up and giving you a hug]" and she said "Yeah, I can tell."
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Needless to say, after awhile she made a habit of avoiding me. But heck, I can't blame her, I was a freakin' dork.
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And you are still a dork.
 
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