"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To Catch A Cheater- Hi-tech Devices

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WELL we all know the common sense CSI red flag signs to seek out if you suspect someone is cheating. Everything from voice tone, eye movements, odd behavior, lame excuses, un-accounted for time, etc.

WELCOME TO 2008.........most people use a cell phone and or a computer to communicate with thier flings/objects of their desire.

New devices are now available to track DELETED TEXT MESSAGES ON CELL PHONES......EVEN IF THEY LOCK OUT THEIR PHONES. SIM CARD READERS CAN reveal : last ten numbers dialed or received, all deleted text messages. Other devices can notify you of when they are making a phone call and even listen in on conversations.

Computer software to; read undeleted emails/IM's, reverse number lookups revealing name addresses has been around for almost a decade now. GOOGLE searches, facial recognition, email archiving and Spy cam sales have increased 200% in the last few years.

Cheating is on the increase and is NOT going away........just thought I would let you know that technology is catching up to those of you that cheat.

I am sure for every new gizzmo that comes out there will be anti-spy ware device to circumvent that.

Currently there are voicemail numbers you can purchase online, I suppose you could buy a pay as you go phone or disposable phone without a sim card, there is also ISP blockers, true deleting of recycle bins software, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kev07 said:
Exactly. I'm not exactly sure what I'm replying to but I'm going to say I think you proved that it is easier to catch cheaters now, not "cheating is on the increase."

Other than that I am rather speechless. However by virtue of the thumbs up I would assume this is a good thing? If so I would like to congratulate you on a job well done.
 

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well CHEATING has always been here, I THINK newbies and women think dating multiple people is a form of cheating.

Tons of relationship questions posted that all circumscribe around cheating.

So ya i guess I am saying to catch a cheater is easy today!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did the OP meant it could be used against us? That is what I would be more concerned about.

Given that cheating is never going away, and most guys are AFCs, I have thought about opening a store to sell hi-tech gadgets designed to catch a cheating spouse. I need a private detective and a divorce attorney in-house, and we can all cash in. Plus I get a constant stream of new women who want to get even with their philandering spouse. I'd take their money, then I'd take their minds off their problems. :D
 

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1) UNLESS the person is your wife or somebody that has some sort of legal contract with you (girlfriend that owns a house with you, etc.), then using this devices is a waste of time, energy, and AFC

2) If you have a girlfriend and you suspect she is cheating on you...then dump her. Plenty of women out there.

3) Now...if you tend to cheat or have the potential to cheat...might as well learn about the new tricks so you don't get caught.
 

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COD said:
Cheating is on the increase and is NOT going away........just thought I would let you know that technology is catching up to those of you that cheat.

I am sure for every new gizzmo that comes out there will be anti-spy ware device to circumvent that.
Then again with each new gizmo, it takes time for spy ware device to come out to counter it and it too costs money to use. If people want to cheat they will cheat, it can be done with the usage of technology or the old fashion way (picking up in a bar and hooking up for ONS).

If you are already in a position where you don't trust your signifcant other and you are one step away from spying on them, you are better off ending the relationship all together. Its people who lack other options, tend to be mediocre, settle for mediocre relationships with mediocre partners and always fear of losing them.
 
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