"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To Catch A Cheater- Hi-tech Devices

COD

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WELL we all know the common sense CSI red flag signs to seek out if you suspect someone is cheating. Everything from voice tone, eye movements, odd behavior, lame excuses, un-accounted for time, etc.

WELCOME TO 2008.........most people use a cell phone and or a computer to communicate with thier flings/objects of their desire.

New devices are now available to track DELETED TEXT MESSAGES ON CELL PHONES......EVEN IF THEY LOCK OUT THEIR PHONES. SIM CARD READERS CAN reveal : last ten numbers dialed or received, all deleted text messages. Other devices can notify you of when they are making a phone call and even listen in on conversations.

Computer software to; read undeleted emails/IM's, reverse number lookups revealing name addresses has been around for almost a decade now. GOOGLE searches, facial recognition, email archiving and Spy cam sales have increased 200% in the last few years.

Cheating is on the increase and is NOT going away........just thought I would let you know that technology is catching up to those of you that cheat.

I am sure for every new gizzmo that comes out there will be anti-spy ware device to circumvent that.

Currently there are voicemail numbers you can purchase online, I suppose you could buy a pay as you go phone or disposable phone without a sim card, there is also ISP blockers, true deleting of recycle bins software, etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heart Break Kid

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Kev07 said:
Exactly. I'm not exactly sure what I'm replying to but I'm going to say I think you proved that it is easier to catch cheaters now, not "cheating is on the increase."

Other than that I am rather speechless. However by virtue of the thumbs up I would assume this is a good thing? If so I would like to congratulate you on a job well done.
 

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well CHEATING has always been here, I THINK newbies and women think dating multiple people is a form of cheating.

Tons of relationship questions posted that all circumscribe around cheating.

So ya i guess I am saying to catch a cheater is easy today!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did the OP meant it could be used against us? That is what I would be more concerned about.

Given that cheating is never going away, and most guys are AFCs, I have thought about opening a store to sell hi-tech gadgets designed to catch a cheating spouse. I need a private detective and a divorce attorney in-house, and we can all cash in. Plus I get a constant stream of new women who want to get even with their philandering spouse. I'd take their money, then I'd take their minds off their problems. :D
 

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1) UNLESS the person is your wife or somebody that has some sort of legal contract with you (girlfriend that owns a house with you, etc.), then using this devices is a waste of time, energy, and AFC

2) If you have a girlfriend and you suspect she is cheating on you...then dump her. Plenty of women out there.

3) Now...if you tend to cheat or have the potential to cheat...might as well learn about the new tricks so you don't get caught.
 

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COD said:
Cheating is on the increase and is NOT going away........just thought I would let you know that technology is catching up to those of you that cheat.

I am sure for every new gizzmo that comes out there will be anti-spy ware device to circumvent that.
Then again with each new gizmo, it takes time for spy ware device to come out to counter it and it too costs money to use. If people want to cheat they will cheat, it can be done with the usage of technology or the old fashion way (picking up in a bar and hooking up for ONS).

If you are already in a position where you don't trust your signifcant other and you are one step away from spying on them, you are better off ending the relationship all together. Its people who lack other options, tend to be mediocre, settle for mediocre relationships with mediocre partners and always fear of losing them.
 
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