to call or not?

[Cloudtopsun2100]

I've been dating this girl for awhile. We had a great talk on the phone tuesday she asks for a phone kiss before she gets off the phone so I tell her I'll call her wednesday- wednesday rolls around I call her up kinda late- she sleeps early cause she gets up at 6- anyways i get the vm after 1 ring and don't leave a message. Now its thursday evening and she hasn't called me back- I'm debating whether or not to. Perhaps I should just call her tomorrow? I want to set up a date with her friday evening. what to do??

 

[defiancy]

Dont call too often...ignoring is a powerful weapon and just act casually....talk to her occasionally...not most of the time

 

[defiancy]

By the way...clean out ur box because you're over the limit...

If you want to communicate..you bettter do so hehe

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

its 1030 now- too late to call unless I wanna leave some crummy VM...I guess I'll have to call her tomorrow morning......if she doesnt call me by 5 though I'm going to not call her for the whole weekend and not go out on the friday date regardless.. good move?

 

[Sammo]

Dont call.

If you had done everything right she would be brimming with excitement to see you and would want to call you more then anything.

However, im not saying give it up. Stupidly enough, you put the ball in her court, dont go and try pick it up and take it back to yours.

Hope it all works out for ya mate.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

ya, so dont call her on Friday either? this is retarded.....she must be a real blockhead not to call me- i shouldn't even have this thread- i will call her once more ( it'll be her saying yes to a date OR saying something stupid and irrelevant in which case she gets nexted on the spot~ her VM will count as stupid)- I'm not the one who wanted to be bf/gf (she did) - I don't wanna meet her friends either - she must be trying to get her power back or whatever- she can just go back to her omega buddies and go be a queen bee then - crazy ass gameplaying bytc*, f*** this I'mma gonna forget about her stank HB9 ass this weekend- and also f*** exclusivity that's for AFC's...I just got a new number today...ahhh now I feel better just had to rant.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Still in high school at 20 something huh?

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by Cloudtopsun2100
ya, so dont call her on Friday either? this is retarded.....she must be a real blockhead not to call me- i shouldn't even have this thread- i will call her once more ( it'll be her saying yes to a date OR saying something stupid and irrelevant in which case she gets nexted on the spot~ her VM will count as stupid)- I'm not the one who wanted to be bf/gf (she did) - I don't wanna meet her friends either - she must be trying to get her power back or whatever- she can just go back to her omega buddies and go be a queen bee then - crazy ass gameplaying bytc*, f*** this I'mma gonna forget about her stank HB9 ass this weekend- and also f*** exclusivity that's for AFC's...I just got a new number today...ahhh now I feel better just had to rant.

what the hell is your problem? sh1t happens, it isn't always the girl's fault, and if she didn't call you back than she either has a good reason or is playing games with you. there's no reason for you to cry like this. just calm down and take it in stride.

 

[Jerky Boi]

One thing I'm really big on is not to overanalyze things. Unless she hates you with a passion(which doesn't seem likely in your situation), she probably had a good reason not to return your call..just put yourself in her situation. Have there not been days when a girl called and you have been absolutely too busy to return a call?


Just relax.

 

[Sammo]

Dont call her at all.

 

[MidwestFreek]

wow...ur thinking about this too much...heres what i do...i call the girl...the girl doesnt answer, ill leave a quick message "Hey (girls name) it's Evan, i was gonna ask u somethin, but ur not answering..well sucks for you..later" or something along those lines, then i forget about it. If she doesn't call..her loss, next.

 

[Porky]

In general I try not to leave voice mail messages. The problem with that is that a geniunely interested girl may not know that you called, and she would return your call had you left a message.

If you say the generic "this is evan, just calling, call me back or something" than they probably won't ring you. The message I use, which always gets them to call me back, is "hey Amber, this is Matt. Call me back at exactly 9:37 (or some other obscure time)."