To Call or not to call??

[O Snap]

Ok guys, first time writing on here, so bear with me. I have been reading the articles and the bible for a while now, and i know that it is recommended to only call girls when you are planning a date(as little time on the phone as possible).

However, I am a college student on winter break. I went out with this girl a couple of times before school ended, and they went well. I have not said a word to her since our finals week, which was about 3 weeks ago, except to see if she was coming back to school early for new years(she lives 5 hours away, and it was bad weather).

My question is, should i call her, just to see how both her and her break are going, or do I wait until school starts to call her again? I don't think a phone call asking her how she is doing is going to come off as "too needy".

Thanks again guys

 

[golf299]

i was in the same situation with a couple girls before i left for break and i have called them both up over break...keeps em' thinking of you and lets them know that they're being thought of--girls like that. i say give her a call and see whats up, but don't talk forever with her, just a quick chat.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

How long before you go back? Don't even worry about calling. Don't put too much emphazis either. This is one of the few instances in which an email, or heaven forbid, a tex message might be the best thing, since you're not gonna ask her out anyway. When you see her back at school, don't even bring it up. If she ackowledges it or not is irrelevant, since you are in control and are just gonna pick it up from where you left off anyway.

 

[BLUEox117]

Originally posted by O Snap
Ok guys, first time writing on here, so bear with me. I have been reading the articles and the bible for a while now, and i know that it is recommended to only call girls when you are planning a date(as little time on the phone as possible).

However, I am a college student on winter break. I went out with this girl a couple of times before school ended, and they went well. I have not said a word to her since our finals week, which was about 3 weeks ago, except to see if she was coming back to school early for new years(she lives 5 hours away, and it was bad weather).

My question is, should i call her, just to see how both her and her break are going, or do I wait until school starts to call her again? I don't think a phone call asking her how she is doing is going to come off as "too needy".

Thanks again guys

a couple of times?
u dont know her well enough,
it is desperate.

 

[O Snap]

hey thanks a lot guys. I appreciate all of the input!

O Snap