"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To Buy or not to Buy booze for under-21girls...

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AFC's would do it... I did it once, and she ****ing dumped me after I bought her the booze.

I'm planning on getting together with an under 21 girl this weekend, and I want to be prepared on what to say to her when she asks me to buy her some booze, if she does.

So what should I tell her if she asks?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are you going to her party or yours?
I'm only 18 but I've bought many younger girls beer before (fake..) and they'll def chill with you after u get it for em. find out the plans for the night, if shes going somewhere without you, charge her up the ass.
she should have a fake. lol. i mean if its YOUR party that you two are going to, jsut buy a case and chalk it up as being nice.

but I used my make my ex buy all her own **** lol.
 
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I've made this mistake before. Here is what I learned.

If you're not going to drink it with her, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!! Unless she will do something nice TO you
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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@Patrick...

It's not a party... I'm just inviting her over to watch a movie or something.

I don't drink BTW
 
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If you dont drink, definatley dont bother, it just shows her that you will do flips for her amusement.
 
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saw thread title

BUY

and then hook up with them

i dont care bout what else u got to write
 
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u just gotta drink with her, and while ur doin that, escalate and close, pretty simple and straight forward really
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Legally you could get into a lot of trouble if something bad happened. If she went out and did something totally stupid like walking across the highway and got run over YOU would be at least partly liable.

On the other hand "candy is dandy but liquor is quicker" has always been true. Best to do it at home and don't let her drive. Women cannot hold their liquor worth a damn. A former girl friend of mine drove my Trans Am through a garage door and hit the 2 cars within. She thought I was too drunk to drive and made me give her the keys...
 
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