"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To Buy or not to Buy booze for under-21girls...

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AFC's would do it... I did it once, and she ****ing dumped me after I bought her the booze.

I'm planning on getting together with an under 21 girl this weekend, and I want to be prepared on what to say to her when she asks me to buy her some booze, if she does.

So what should I tell her if she asks?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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are you going to her party or yours?
I'm only 18 but I've bought many younger girls beer before (fake..) and they'll def chill with you after u get it for em. find out the plans for the night, if shes going somewhere without you, charge her up the ass.
she should have a fake. lol. i mean if its YOUR party that you two are going to, jsut buy a case and chalk it up as being nice.

but I used my make my ex buy all her own **** lol.
 
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I've made this mistake before. Here is what I learned.

If you're not going to drink it with her, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!! Unless she will do something nice TO you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@Patrick...

It's not a party... I'm just inviting her over to watch a movie or something.

I don't drink BTW
 
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If you dont drink, definatley dont bother, it just shows her that you will do flips for her amusement.
 
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saw thread title

BUY

and then hook up with them

i dont care bout what else u got to write
 
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u just gotta drink with her, and while ur doin that, escalate and close, pretty simple and straight forward really
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Legally you could get into a lot of trouble if something bad happened. If she went out and did something totally stupid like walking across the highway and got run over YOU would be at least partly liable.

On the other hand "candy is dandy but liquor is quicker" has always been true. Best to do it at home and don't let her drive. Women cannot hold their liquor worth a damn. A former girl friend of mine drove my Trans Am through a garage door and hit the 2 cars within. She thought I was too drunk to drive and made me give her the keys...
 
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