"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To break up with the GF, or not to??

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Epimanes

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I say .. never let your feelings control your actions. If your anxieties get too high, you lose your cognitive thinking ability as your anxieties (insecurity is an anxiety, it does and can eat you up). Take a few minutes to calm down and think rationally. No marriage or relationship is going to be perfect. If you next her without getting over your insecurities you will only bring that with you into the next relationship and history will repeat itself.

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Feelings follow actions... Do the actions first and your feelings will follow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well I did it, i broke up with her. Wasnt easy, the second she walekd out the door, i started balling crying. Im really gonna miss her, but all the arguing and bull**** wasnt worth it
 
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