She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maybe its because they are virgins or maybe am doing something or else they couldnt have aggreed to go in bed with meIceberg said:Well if they're virgins (yeah right) then having sex is probably a big deal for them, and you'll have a harder time getting them to give it up.
Which is why I never understood this board's fascination with virgins.
Maybe they agreed to go in bed with you because they're stupid virgin children and they don't know any better.RitFol said:Maybe its because they are virgins or maybe am doing something or else they couldnt have aggreed to go in bed with me
With all these virgins he found, I thought maybe he lived in Afghanistan.moneyisking said:i want to almost bet my money you're freshman in college. it's that time of year with increasing bull sh!t of female "oh I am a virgin hehe" in first year of college at dorms
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LMFAO!!!!gpshields3 said:With all these virgins he found, I thought maybe he lived in Afghanistan.
Looking back years from now she'll most likely most remember her BEST lay, not her first. The first one tends to be lackluster on average.Alvafe said:maybe its because of that thing of being her first, and she will always remember it, its like at least a girl will remember me and not just be another.
I think the only thing he's doing wrong is messing with virgins. I've messed around with 2 virgins in the last month and neither of them knew wtf they were doing at all. I couldn't get my **** inside either of them. Both were really tight. One started to bleed and I got turned off so I stopped, the other said that it would "sting" when I ever so gently tried to push it in so I stopped with her too.Iceberg said:Maybe they agreed to go in bed with you because they're stupid virgin children and they don't know any better.
It's not like they have a lot of experience to draw from. A grown woman sees getting into a bed with a man as guaranteed sex. I don't know what virgin kids see it as. Maybe they just think of it as cuddling and talking. I don't know.
Or maybe you're doing something wrong.
Yah..that sucks but it's not like I know that they are virgins from the start.It's just that I talk to some girls in my highschool we hit it off and they end up telling me she is a virginfloydb25 said:Is it just me, or does it seem like EVERYONE with dating issues is chasing after the wrong type for their intentions? And not just on here. You got the nice guys and girls trying to be-wed crazy *****es, bar sluts, douchebags, bad boys, and people who use PoF. Then you have the players trying to sex up virgins as theyre walking home from church / middle school. Everyone's whining, hating the opposite gender, and asking for advice when all you need is common sense. Its like standing in a fire pit, and wondering why youre burning / what you did wrong. **** off already.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.