"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To Be Or Not To Be..........yourself!

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Just been goin through all these tips and quotes on this site, and what an awesome place to help you motivate yourself! Im glad i found it!

Anyways, ive been reading a lot about being an yourself of late and i feel the need to clear this up with many out there who just are not understanding whether or not to be yourself!

The answer is YES and NO! Not what some of you are wanting to read im sure, but bare with me here! All men on this site at least realise that an ALPHA male is much more attractive to a woman than a BETA male. Ok now thats out the way you must realise that to be your same old non-successful self of wussy nature always pandering to a womans needs and calls is BS and has to stop! You may then say to me: 'Why cant women accept me for who i am?' I dont want to CHANGE and become MANIPULATIVE 'just' to **** women! YOU are not seeing that you ARE being MANIPULATIVE acting in your boyish nature! You expect to get a good shagging from being Mr nice and giving her everything she 'wants.' It is NOT manipulative to be your true self! A self where you have taken the time to learn and internalise the fact that your real born identity was/is still a MAN who can stroll through life with a strong easy grace!

As Michealangelo once said about his sculptures when asked how he creates such beautiful pieces from a piece of marble: He said i just chip away at the rock until i find whats hidden beneath! This is a metaphor for a man who with social and cultural conditioning to act in a certain way around women has become covered in **** over time which has hardened to a crust. This can continue to accumulate over time, or with effort and perseverence can be cracked and thrust aside, revealing the MAN beneath the ****. This is when it is ok to be yourself, when you are who you are and love it! No paralysis from fear! A MANS gotta do what a MANs gotta do! No **** coated 'nice' guys here! No manipulation just pure ALPHA MANHOOD :D GRRRRRRRRR!!!!!! COME ON!!!!!

I should prob finish on that dramatic note but i gotta make this clear. A BETA male is **** covered, OK!? He goes through life attempting to cover for his inadeqaucies by showing off his new car or money etc! This essentially is like adding a diamond ring to a **** covered man. When it would be much more attractive to see THE MAN!It just fails to make any impression when the woman is still overwhelmed by the smell of **** (his manipulative niceness).

Anyway lol i guess theres other articles on this on this site which i havent read yet so i must apologise if this has already been covered! Until next time

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LMAO, somebody should compile a 'JUST BE YOURSELF' thread. It seems like nobody understands the difference between a DJ and a PUA anymore these days. Forgot about that gem Bucky, I should go over the front page more often instead of just scanning the bible for missed truths.

Now to you minister... which comic book is that? It sounds familiar, but it's soooo out of place.

You wrote a great thread. You finally found the word I was looking for. The nice guys in the world who try to MANIPULATE the women, and still believe they are being the nice guys... I so have to go back to my research on that...
 

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Lol i know what you mean about a comic book character, though i dont know where i got it from it just hit me! It certainly aint no name for a DJ

But yeah looks like this has been covered before in some ways, but any nice guy out there needs to realise in being so is in detriment to himself and the ladies with his MANIPULATION and SELFISH tactics!

I got a question for you guys as im new to this! Its a little problem im having! I can talk to anyone no problem and i here craig and DD go on about 'its always on'! I feel like it is always on but then how can it really be? Is a girl turly just thinking/feeling that sprta stuff when with a guy? Some girls treat me puppy eyed, some just act easy going, others shout at me lol! WTF! But whats it all mean? I guess what im looking for here is how can i really tell whether it is on aside from all that talk of bodylanguage which may be true if your a master at it, but i sometimes stand there with my arms crossed and im not clossed offf im just interested in whats being said!

Think i just inadvertantly got into a few dif areas there but if someone could help me out here.......
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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