"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To be 25 again

Stagger Lee

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So I got tired of seeing and only talking to mostly 30 year old stuck up hags on OKcupid. So I dropped my age down 8 years to 25, even though my pics are at age 32, just to see what I could see. By the way, the mangina ran POF won't let you do that among other things.

Much more girls and cuter ones with most of them being around 20-23 years old. I'm talking to some 23 year old borderline 8's, getting numbers, girls that if were 30 and looked as good wouldn't even answer. These younger girls are more real and just more refreshing. Their pics are just normal and not all dolled and doctored up. They probably look even much better in person and with their clothes off.

Older women suck but think they are all Ms. America. Being a guy over 28 or looking older than about 25 sucks.

Of course my thinning air, slightly aging face can't convincingly pull it off in person. If I could, I'd be macking it at the college bars still.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was able to pull off the 25 thing until say 32ish.

Last year I had some older cougars think I'm 26, but that was just their fantasy lol.

20something women are no longer an option for me.

I'm ok with it. I did what (and who lol) I could for as long as I could :).

I get what you are saying though. (I cleared my PM if you want to chat.)
 

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Yeah it sucks that an older guy, 30's even into 40's, and younger girl 20's can actually be compatible with each other. Some of these younger girls would be interested in an older guy but mostly because of socially created age stigma they can't get past a number. Of course, older women don't face the same stigma with younger guys. I'm finding that 30-40 year old women are more willing to date much younger men than their age than they are older now.

Most of these girls between 20-24 set their age restriction at 28-30, so if your age is over that you never even see them in the online dating searches.
 
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There's nothing wrong with being 30 or older, but you're right. The ageist fvck who runs POF has some serious issues, and has imposed some downright ridiculous rules on men which prevent them from contacting younger women. I would boycott this site entirely if I used online dating.
 

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Stagger Lee I'm just curious mate this your 3rd thread or so recently on online dating, do you ever approach women in field?

It's not uncommon for my buddy who is 33 to pick up 25 year olds or younger at bars/clubs. Staying fit and keeping up with style certainly helps him and the guy barley speaks English but he gets more tail then any guy I know

Here is a pic of him
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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