“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PokerStar

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to know if a woman is currently dating several guys or she is not dating at all.

I want to know right away if she is. Why? so I can gauge where I stand with her.

I want to know if you guys have ever asked the question or do you just leave it up to her to tell you.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Can I ask, why do you care where you stand with her?

To put it bluntly, I stand in one of 2 different paths with a woman. Either I'm banging her, or I'm not.

If I'm banging her, then I know where I stand - I'm a guy who's banging her. As far as titles (boyfriend, dating, etc), I let the girl worry about that. All I ask of her is that she serves a purpose in my life (good sex, entertainment, no drama).

If I'm not, then I shouldn't give a f**k what she thinks, or where I stand.

So - are you having sex with this woman? If you are, then what leads you to believe that she's sexing other dudes? And if you're not, then why do you care where you stand with her? She's doing nothing for you.
 

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hmmm...

I understand.

Come to think about it. this post is total afc. I guess it doesnt matter where I stand with her. and you are right. either im banging her or im not.

Its the only path i should take.
 

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Yeah, who gives two poos where you stand with her, unless you're marrying her the time you spend with her is going to be casual fun at best. So chill, if you're not comfortable with her banging 3 other dudes, ask yourself why. Its not her problem, its yours. Work it out, it most likely comes down to a deep insecurity which only rears its ugly head in certain situations. Like ask yourself do you feel insecure about her seeing other guys because you fear that at any point she might reject you and leave you? or because you are worried that you're not good enough for her? Its this stuff which you have to ask yourself which can make all the difference and can really leave you at one with yourself because once you can identify that insecurity you have, you can combat it.
 

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PokerStar said:
hmmm...

I understand.

Come to think about it. this post is total afc. I guess it doesnt matter where I stand with her. and you are right. either im banging her or im not.

Its the only path i should take.
can we assume that this means you aren't banging her?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PokerStar said:
hmmm...

I understand.

Come to think about it. this post is total afc. I guess it doesnt matter where I stand with her. and you are right. either im banging her or im not.

Its the only path i should take.
What doesn't matter, is if she's banging anyone else. That's irrelevant. A girl who has a boyfriend shouldn't be paying attention to other guys anyway. If she is showing interest towards you that's all that matters.
 

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Aaron B - there are 2 on the radar at the moment. the first one Ive been on two dates with her and kissed closed but she becomes distant every few weeks. which im thinking she is seeing someone else at the same time.

the second one is coming by my place this Friday for some wine and cheese. Im not sure if she is seeing somebody at the moment but I DONT CARE simply due to this thread and reminding me not to return to my afc ways.
 

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Poker Star your intuition is correct about chick #1 as for chick #2 wear protection she's coming to your palce so its up to you seal the deal.

I would also recommend getting another 3 women otherwise when 1 flames out you'll get oneitis for #2.
 
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