"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aussiegoat55

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I've been recently going to the pool to swim laps and there's this HB8 lifeguard checking me out, giving me eye contact, smiles, hi's and goodbyes. So there is obviously interest, I know it, I feel it. When I was about to leave the pool she timed her leaving to walk out with me. Coincidence? Ha!

Unfortunatley I'm kicking myself for not taking advantage of that situation, however, if I approach her, which I want to, and if she says yes, it'll change the dynamic. It will mean having to see her 3 days a week plus possible weekend dates, that is unless I find a different pool. All assuming she gives me her number. Just wanting some advice. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bfl

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Jesus christ....

This is one of the clearest "come i wanna fuk" signs that a girl will ever give you.

So many clear signs of interest and you didnt even make one move, i got no words for you my friend ima just let the forum do the flaming......seat back and read eating popcorn.
 
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bachelor

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Go for the number... Talk to her after your done swimming and invite her out to lunch... It wont be awkward at the pool unless you make it. You can actually use that as time to joke around with her...
 
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remember "there is no such thing as failure, just feedback". What have you got to lose?
 
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