"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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aussiegoat55

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I've been recently going to the pool to swim laps and there's this HB8 lifeguard checking me out, giving me eye contact, smiles, hi's and goodbyes. So there is obviously interest, I know it, I feel it. When I was about to leave the pool she timed her leaving to walk out with me. Coincidence? Ha!

Unfortunatley I'm kicking myself for not taking advantage of that situation, however, if I approach her, which I want to, and if she says yes, it'll change the dynamic. It will mean having to see her 3 days a week plus possible weekend dates, that is unless I find a different pool. All assuming she gives me her number. Just wanting some advice. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bfl

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Jesus christ....

This is one of the clearest "come i wanna fuk" signs that a girl will ever give you.

So many clear signs of interest and you didnt even make one move, i got no words for you my friend ima just let the forum do the flaming......seat back and read eating popcorn.
 
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bachelor

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Go for the number... Talk to her after your done swimming and invite her out to lunch... It wont be awkward at the pool unless you make it. You can actually use that as time to joke around with her...
 
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remember "there is no such thing as failure, just feedback". What have you got to lose?
 
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