"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To anyone who knows about Lasik and wearing contacts

white sox bill

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OK here goes--I really need Lasik and am willing to brave the small risks. I wear blue colored contacts, which I literally love this color. I understand that I need to go w/o contacts for a week prior to consultation, no problem there.

Now I intend to keep the colored contacts (non-prescript) in after surgery. My question is: How long do I have to wait AFTER surgery before I can put the contacts in? I know the rep told me 2-3 days recovery time, but was unsure about when I could wear the contacts again. Anyone know?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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God_of_getting_layed

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fvck lasik

the **** isnt even FDA approaved. and there are some real bad consequences. permenantly fvcked up vision that not even glasses or contacts can fix. really dry eyes, I mean so dry that you gotta by special prescription $200 eyedrops that you have to drop in your eyes every hour. this is the most common side effect. night blindness is another, making it hard and dangerous to drive at night.

Man, the side effects are horrible. But you could luck out and get perfect vision with no side effects. its different for everyone, and its unpredictable if you will get it. Its like playing russian roulette, fvck lasik.

My advice is to not shop around for the cheapest lasik op, thats just asking for the bad side effects. Get the most expensive well trained and educated guy you can find.
 

Celadus

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The risks of lasik are pretty low if you are a good candidate. Just make sure you get several opinions. A good candidate to one surgeon is a bad to another. I don't think they'd allow lasik to be performed if it wasn't approved by the FDA...

Not sure about the contacts. I would give it a good month or two. Ask your doctor when you talk to him again.
 

BacardiGuy

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If you're going to wear contacts anyway, why bother with the surgery and risk screwing with your vision?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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