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Senior Don Juan
I first came to this website when I was 15 or 16, as a virgin. I've not been on here for years as I forgot about the site. I'm 21 now, and I feel like I can help a lot of new people. I came out of a 14 month relationship towards the end 2011, and I haven't looked back since. It was a smooth break up, no hard feelings, the break up was something we mutually agreed on. I get a lot of attention from girls nowadays, and I don't use many of the things I learned here.
From my personnel experience, the things you learn here form the foundation for changing the way you think about and treat girls. The book of pook was a great place to start, I don't know if thats still around. As the time goes by and you put into practice the things you've learnt here, eventually you start to try things your own way rather than what pick up techniques you should be using in each specific interaction with a girl. The most important thing I've found out is that it's not about dropping ****y + funny one liners, it's about engaging the girl in conversation and being able to keep the conversation light and fun. You're not going to see results immediately, it takes years. Sure I got confidence from this site and from what I'd read, and that definitely does help as you're starting off, but over time you will develop actual confidence in your ability to flirt with women and get results, to the point of where as I mentioned at the beginning, you can completely be yourself and you won't have to even think about techniques. The confidence in your ability with girls will just be instilled in you. You realise that it doesn't matter whether you sleep with the girl or not, because it's not really going to improve your life in the long run, so either it's no big deal.
I haven't wrote this post very well because I don't have much time right now, I'll go into more detail sometime in the future. The aim of this is just to say everything takes time, be patient and in time things will change in your favour.
From my personnel experience, the things you learn here form the foundation for changing the way you think about and treat girls. The book of pook was a great place to start, I don't know if thats still around. As the time goes by and you put into practice the things you've learnt here, eventually you start to try things your own way rather than what pick up techniques you should be using in each specific interaction with a girl. The most important thing I've found out is that it's not about dropping ****y + funny one liners, it's about engaging the girl in conversation and being able to keep the conversation light and fun. You're not going to see results immediately, it takes years. Sure I got confidence from this site and from what I'd read, and that definitely does help as you're starting off, but over time you will develop actual confidence in your ability to flirt with women and get results, to the point of where as I mentioned at the beginning, you can completely be yourself and you won't have to even think about techniques. The confidence in your ability with girls will just be instilled in you. You realise that it doesn't matter whether you sleep with the girl or not, because it's not really going to improve your life in the long run, so either it's no big deal.
I haven't wrote this post very well because I don't have much time right now, I'll go into more detail sometime in the future. The aim of this is just to say everything takes time, be patient and in time things will change in your favour.