To all your POF users, I'm looking for a quick lay - best age group?

[Shivastorm_88]

I'm 24, so I can easily range from the 18 y/o age group to the 30 y/o age group... Which one, based on your experience, do I have the most chance to find some horny girls that will easily put out?

Also, here's my profile, any pictures you suggest I take down?

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17058801

 

[bukowski_merit]

- Age group doesn't really matter. I've layed women of all age groups (all the way up to 41), and don't notice too much difference in effort. Although younger girls are 50% more likely to flake out at the last second (especially if it's pretty clear that she wants to have sex with you; LMR).

- If you're just looking for easy @ss - don't underestimate Craigslist "No Strings Attached/Intimate Encounter" section. Over 5 years - I've laid way more women off there than any other site, and it's 10Xs easier and less hassle. There are A LOT of warpigs on there, but no lie - some of the sexiest women I've fvcked have been off there too.

- I don't like your "about me" section. It doesn't scream "I'm a fun lay". At best - it just makes you sound like a "basic" fun guy. Which can have women thinking you'd make a good dad for her 3 illegitimate children.

Keep it very simple. Knock off all the selling of yourself. If anyone should be selling themselves - it should be her!

Chunk your copy.... Do you know what that means? It means don't have academic paragraphs.... Write in small, clear/concise sentences.

Instead of saying you have a sarcastic/absurd sense of humor - show it! If you don't know how to show it - maybe you don't have one.

- Focus more on what you're looking for in a woman. DO HAVE expectations. Even if goofy expectations like, "Must be able to make eye contact while having conversation". Give the woman something to qualify herself to when responding or messaging you. It can be a big IOI.

- I see no benefit to mentioning that you don't workout. NONE!

- It's better to lead with a strong opener. Then hold their attention with each line. I get messages all the time that I have a "very interesting profile" which is not the same as "you sound like an interesting person."

- Pictures are ok, but you have too many. Cut it down! I would keep the one "Rock Climbing in Kentucky"... The one of you on top of the waterfall. The one of you siitting on the ledge with Niagra Falls behind you (the only one that you can really tell what you look like). And perhaps the final one with the shirt off.... There's no good reason to have more than 4.

 

[Shivastorm_88]

- Age group doesn't really matter. I've layed women of all age groups (all the way up to 41), and don't notice too much difference in effort. Although younger girls are 50% more likely to flake out at the last second (especially if it's pretty clear that she wants to have sex with you; LMR).

- If you're just looking for easy @ss - don't underestimate Craigslist "No Strings Attached/Intimate Encounter" section. Over 5 years - I've laid way more women off there than any other site, and it's 10Xs easier and less hassle. There are A LOT of warpigs on there, but no lie - some of the sexiest women I've fvcked have been off there too.

- I don't like your "about me" section. It doesn't scream "I'm a fun lay". At best - it just makes you sound like a "basic" fun guy. Which can have women thinking you'd make a good dad for her 3 illegitimate children.

Keep it very simple. Knock off all the selling of yourself. If anyone should be selling themselves - it should be her!

Chunk your copy.... Do you know what that means? It means don't have academic paragraphs.... Write in small, clear/concise sentences.

Instead of saying you have a sarcastic/absurd sense of humor - show it! If you don't know how to show it - maybe you don't have one.

- Focus more on what you're looking for in a woman. DO HAVE expectations. Even if goofy expectations like, "Must be able to make eye contact while having conversation". Give the woman something to qualify herself to when responding or messaging you. It can be a big IOI.

- I see no benefit to mentioning that you don't workout. NONE!

- It's better to lead with a strong opener. Then hold their attention with each line. I get messages all the time that I have a "very interesting profile" which is not the same as "you sound like an interesting person."

- Pictures are ok, but you have too many. Cut it down! I would keep the one "Rock Climbing in Kentucky"... The one of you on top of the waterfall. The one of you siitting on the ledge with Niagra Falls behind you (the only one that you can really tell what you look like). And perhaps the final one with the shirt off.... There's no good reason to have more than 4.

Thanks, those are so really good tips... Do you mind PMing me your profile so I can use it as an example?

 

[omega05]

I agree with cutting down the numer of pics you have. I dont agree with "your profile not screaming I'm a fun lay". You cant just make yourself seem like all you want is sex but you can throw in some things like you like receiving massages. I like your profilie overall though. It all does depend on the message you send to women more though

 

[bukowski_merit]

Thanks, those are so really good tips... Do you mind PMing me your profile so I can use it as an example?

I am actually banned from POF (over a rule that no longer exist; putting up a shirtless pic used to be against the rules). I do have a Okcupid and meetme profile, although i have nothing on my meetme about me, and the OKC one is a good bit different since you answer their questions. But if you want to see it - i'll PM you the link.

I agree with cutting down the numer of pics you have. I dont agree with "your profile not screaming I'm a fun lay". You cant just make yourself seem like all you want is sex but you can throw in some things like you like receiving massages. I like your profilie overall though. It all does depend on the message you send to women more though

Of course you don't come out and say that you're looking for sex. But you really shouldn't mention massages either, it is one of the most cliche ways for a man to "hint" at sexual interest (I see it over and over on meetme; guys proposing that the woman let him come give her a "full body massage.").

You can be a lot less into talking about yourself though. DEMONSTRATE it.

Do you need to mention that you like rock climbing when almost all of your pictures show this?

Do you need to mention that you have an absurd sense of humor? ESPECIALLY when your profile doesn't really reflect that.

Learn to subcommunicate your sexual nature in an almost poetic form.

Etc.

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It's not really "that" important though.

You need to, first, make it past her minimal physical attractiveness requirement (which will change from woman to woman.) If you can't do this - nothing else matters.

Second, have something interesting to say in your emails, texts, phone calls.

Third, get her in your bed...


All else is of minimal importance.