"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joe henny

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I wanted the opinions of the guys who actually get laid on this site. Guys who actually are considered a player or a don juan or whatever you wanna call it. Basically a guy who enjoys a variety of women and plans on enjoying the variety for some time to come.

Whats your style of spinning plates? Do you prefer to have a main chick and a side piece and just constantly cycle through different ones every few weeks?

Or do you have a few spinning plates (4 or more) that you use as a team but take a lil longer to cycle through?

Haters I already know your going to jump on the thread. More power to you if thats what you need to do to feel good about yourself as a person whatever. I won't pay you any attention, but to all the normal people post your thoughts. :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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joe henny said:
I wanted the opinions of the guys who actually get laid on this site. Guys who actually are considered a player or a don juan or whatever you wanna call it.
joe henny said:
Don't answer if you have limited to no experience with women and just a bunch of theories.

joe henny said:
Do you consider your self a player. Or a PUA? Which style of game do you use and why?

joe henny said:
Are there any real players on this site that actually have bigger goals in the game than just being able to get 1 girl.

What's with you and the "player" thing? You sound like a 12 year old who just stepped out of a time machine from 1992.
 

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hater count: 1
 

Gangster Of Love

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joe henny said:
Or do you have a few spinning plates (4 or more) that you use as a team but take a lil longer to cycle through?
That.

Usually have a primary, or "steak" that I bring around more. I manage it like a dinner plate. A steak, a side dishes, apetizers, salads, desert, etc. Or manage my team like a pitching staff: starting rotation, long relief, stopper, etc. There is one I'll see once/twice a week. A couple I might see once a week. A few more once ever 10 days to two weeks. The out of towner or once a month one. etc
 

Poonani Maker

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They're always "new" and I hardly ever see the same girl twice, although I fvcked one just this Monday night that I will probably be seeing Sunday afternoon. I'm having some serious dental work and can't/won't want to do anything Fri or Sat.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Mad Ghost

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Player Supreme is sucks major ass. Who has 5-10 people at his seminars. Player-nothing. A group of me and a few Pi Kappa Alpha Frat Boys will take a giant sh*t on any of his students.
 

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Relationships.

I'm a sick human being, I crave for the attention and affection

Sex with a girl you're emotionally intimate with is A LOT better than casual sex.
 

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Don't make no difference.

You and your questions, joe_henny.

Main dish and sides. Now a question for you - why do you need to know?
 
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