"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To all you players

joe henny

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I wanted the opinions of the guys who actually get laid on this site. Guys who actually are considered a player or a don juan or whatever you wanna call it. Basically a guy who enjoys a variety of women and plans on enjoying the variety for some time to come.

Whats your style of spinning plates? Do you prefer to have a main chick and a side piece and just constantly cycle through different ones every few weeks?

Or do you have a few spinning plates (4 or more) that you use as a team but take a lil longer to cycle through?

Haters I already know your going to jump on the thread. More power to you if thats what you need to do to feel good about yourself as a person whatever. I won't pay you any attention, but to all the normal people post your thoughts. :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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joe henny said:
I wanted the opinions of the guys who actually get laid on this site. Guys who actually are considered a player or a don juan or whatever you wanna call it.
joe henny said:
Don't answer if you have limited to no experience with women and just a bunch of theories.

joe henny said:
Do you consider your self a player. Or a PUA? Which style of game do you use and why?

joe henny said:
Are there any real players on this site that actually have bigger goals in the game than just being able to get 1 girl.

What's with you and the "player" thing? You sound like a 12 year old who just stepped out of a time machine from 1992.
 

joe henny

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Gangster Of Love

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joe henny said:
Or do you have a few spinning plates (4 or more) that you use as a team but take a lil longer to cycle through?
That.

Usually have a primary, or "steak" that I bring around more. I manage it like a dinner plate. A steak, a side dishes, apetizers, salads, desert, etc. Or manage my team like a pitching staff: starting rotation, long relief, stopper, etc. There is one I'll see once/twice a week. A couple I might see once a week. A few more once ever 10 days to two weeks. The out of towner or once a month one. etc
 

Poonani Maker

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They're always "new" and I hardly ever see the same girl twice, although I fvcked one just this Monday night that I will probably be seeing Sunday afternoon. I'm having some serious dental work and can't/won't want to do anything Fri or Sat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Mad Ghost

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Player Supreme is sucks major ass. Who has 5-10 people at his seminars. Player-nothing. A group of me and a few Pi Kappa Alpha Frat Boys will take a giant sh*t on any of his students.
 

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Relationships.

I'm a sick human being, I crave for the attention and affection

Sex with a girl you're emotionally intimate with is A LOT better than casual sex.
 

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Don't make no difference.

You and your questions, joe_henny.

Main dish and sides. Now a question for you - why do you need to know?
 
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