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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
lol, didn't notice that until now as well!

I say double what backbreaker said after seeing this. There are all different guys in the pictures, and they all look like they are just IN the picture, not part of it, well the girls are IN the picture, whatever, they are sharing the picture, they are just in it. Like pointing at your class grad photo to say that you and so and so were really close friends.

The girl in that last picture looks mighty fine though, rate her an HB8.5
Mr. Ed head? Nah, giver her a 7. :p
 

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those girls look thrilled to be taking a picture with these guys:rolleyes:

most white girls aren't into black guys just like most black girls aren't into white guys

get over it
 

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Originally posted by Silverback82
those girls look thrilled to be taking a picture with these guys:rolleyes:

most white girls aren't into black guys just like most black girls aren't into white guys

get over it

Lol...:crackup:

Biggest load of BS I ever heard. I will guarantee you, that if you put me in a room with tons of hot white chicks and an average white guy, I will get exponentially more girls then him, and I am black. Race means nothing, its all on the individual.

When I go out in public, white women stare at me like I am the hottest guy they have ever seen, and I am black. It has nothing to do with race, and everything about the individual.
 

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Lol...:crackup:

Biggest load of BS I ever heard. I will guarantee you, that if you put me in a room with tons of hot white chicks and an average white guy, I will get exponentially more girls then him, and I am black. Race means nothing, its all on the individual.

When I go out in public, white women stare at me like I am the hottest guy they have ever seen, and I am black. It has nothing to do with race, and everything about the individual.
I call bull****

if you think race doesn't matter you're living in a fantasy world
 

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I believe SynTheUnscathed, and backbreaker when they say they can get white girls.

I just think shooter is complete bullsh!t though.
 

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Lol...:crackup:

Biggest load of BS I ever heard. I will guarantee you, that if you put me in a room with tons of hot white chicks and an average white guy, I will get exponentially more girls then him, and I am black. Race means nothing, its all on the individual.

When I go out in public, white women stare at me like I am the hottest guy they have ever seen, and I am black. It has nothing to do with race, and everything about the individual.
Race does plays a little part. Depends on the girl though. Some girls are taught not to go outside their race at an early age, and some girls just have personal preferences.
But overall, attraction is attraction. You can't really "pick" who you like. If you have the right combo of game and looks you'll get the girl, can't put it much simpler than that.
 

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Originally posted by Silverback82
I've never seen a quality white girl with a non celebrity black guy.
sh!t every time I start trying to defend someone they say something stupid and I feel like an idiot defending them.

Next time just quit while you're ahead. okay?:)
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Race does plays a little part. Depends on the girl though. Some girls are taught not to go outside their race at an early age, and some girls just have personal preferences.
But overall, attraction is attraction. You can't really "pick" who you like. If you have the right combo of game and looks you'll get the girl, can't put it much simpler than that.
stop it... just stop it now.. we had this debate a week ago if that...
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
sh!t every time I start trying to defend someone they say something stupid and I feel like an idiot defending them.

Next time just quit while you're ahead. okay?:)
I was telling the truth. Why do people feel the need to get so sensitive about this? When somebody here says they never see quality girls of any race with short or fat guys nobody gets upset.
 

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Its not that anyone's getting upset, I just think its B.S. and that's all right. Hey that's great that you have your opinions and I have mine, that's what makes this forum so interesting.

I seen
A. Black guys who end up w/ HB9's. And this doesn't have to be a celebrity, it can be a football star in high school. Or captain of basketball team.

B. Black guys who will get w/ any scary white girl in sight. It's like they will get w/ any girl as long as she's white. I'm like buddy that isn't exactly a "trophy" girl, but good luck convincing 'em that.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Its not that anyone's getting upset, I just think its B.S. and that's all righ. Hey that's great that you have your opinions and I have mine, that's what makes this forum so interesting.

I seen
A. Black guys who end up w/ HB9's. And this doesn't have to be a celebrity, it can be a football star in high school. Or captain of basketball team.

B. Black guys who will get w/ any scary white girl in sight. It's like they will get w/ any girl as long as she's white. I'm like buddy that isn't exactly a "trophy" girl, but good luck convincing 'em that.
a star athlete in high school is a celebrity at his school

That's the main reason most white girls won't date black guys. It lowers their social value. If you think otherwise you are seriously delusional. If he's a star athlete it enhances their social value.

Look at the porn world. None of the top stars do black guys, atleast not on film. It lowers their value, they've said this on the Howard Stern show. Taylor Rain had sex with a black guy once off camera. Some guy from 50 Cent's crew. She was very upset when people found out.
 

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Originally posted by Silverback82
I call bull****

if you think race doesn't matter you're living in a fantasy world


No. I am not. Think about it. When you say black. You are talking about stereotypical potrayal of a black man. Gangsta, thuggish ebonics speaking, right?


Myself, I am quite the opposite. I play guitar, my favorite band is Radiohead. I dress like a Banana Republic model, and I have modeled. I have been called gorgeuos many time, AND EACH TIME is was by a HOT white girl, well except once...and it was by a black mom. And I attract white women ALL DAY long. That might have something to do with my unique features, but its still holds true.

A great looking black man, will go farther with females then a good looking white guy in my opinion because they stand out more. Just like a hispanic chick and a white chick. Not that one looks better, but because one is more dramatic and will attract more initial attention.


Anyways, if you think in stereotypes, yeah maybe you might be right. But, I am telling you. I see see black guys with white gurls, all the TIME! Atleast one or two everytime I go to the mall on a weekend.

Believe it or not. Its true.
 

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Originally posted by Silverback82
a star athlete in high school is a celebrity at his school

That's the main reason most white girls won't date black guys. It lowers their social value. If you think otherwise you are seriously delusional. If he's a star athlete it enhances their social value.

Look at the porn world. None of the top stars do black guys, atleast not on film. It lowers their value, they've said this on the Howard Stern show. Taylor Rain had sex with a black guy once off camera. Some guy from 50 Cent's crew. She was very upset when people found out.
This doesnt make any dang sense. If a female celebrity dates a black celebrity how does that increase her value? They are both on the same LEVEL!

Heidi Klum could have any guy in the world, she cant get higher then she is. And she CHOSE Seal. A black man, with scars all over his face. Halle Berry, could have any man she wants in the world, picks a white dude. (Saw this on a new stand the other day). Its about attraction not race. Get over yourself man.

Case closed.
 

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Well, I don't think Silverback is saying this to be spiteful (atleast I hope not).

The thing about the porno stars is kind of true though, I heard it on Howard Stern. But this brings up a question.

Why did Taylor Rain risk sleeping w/ the guy from G-Unit in the first place and put her so called "rep" on the line?

Once again attraction isn't a choice. A good point was raised about why would a celebrity pick a black guy if she already has "status" ?
I think if Denzel wasn't even a celebrity, he probably wouldn't have a problem picking up fine white girls.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Why did Taylor Rain risk sleeping w/ the guy from G-Unit in the first place and put her so called "rep" on the line?
said she did it because of her fathers influence for his dislike of interracial sexual relations.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Its not that anyone's getting upset, I just think its B.S. and that's all right. Hey that's great that you have your opinions and I have mine, that's what makes this forum so interesting.

I seen
A. Black guys who end up w/ HB9's. And this doesn't have to be a celebrity, it can be a football star in high school. Or captain of basketball team.

B. Black guys who will get w/ any scary white girl in sight. It's like they will get w/ any girl as long as she's white. I'm like buddy that isn't exactly a "trophy" girl, but good luck convincing 'em that.

DING DING DING


It's as simple as this... it's either an issue for you or it isn't.. if it is (i.e you go out looking for WHITE women or you have to approach the RACE issue or feel it's a negative) you already lost

Right now... there is a woman, who happens to be white that I meet last night (I have had a great week, I will post a FR later tonight when she leaves.. let me just say someone is loosing their spot in the rotation, I have some tough decisions to make) that is in my bathroom, met herl ast night, things clicked, took her back to my place... Very very good looking.

Not one time since yesterday has the race issue been brought up by her or by me, becuase it's a non issue. I'm me. She's her.

It's the guys that autmoatically think that "oh it's because I'm black isn't it" that have trouble getting with women or what the case may be.

I frankly don't give a damn if you "see" black guys and white women.. doesn't change what I do.. and not every girl I date is white, hell no.. it's just that I see a hot white woman, I willt alk to her.. it's just that i have run into a string of the lately

Seal is a ugly mother****er.. god DAMN he is ugly.. but kiss from a rose is one of my fav songs, one of the songs that got me motivated to learn how to play the piano.

One day seriously, I'm going to have to gather a buch of people from this site and just show them.. dude, it only matters what you think.

And yes I get rejected.. I've got some from the hall of fame that will have you rolling on the floor, but that happens with girls of all races, not just "white women"

If you guys would have saw the girl I REJECTED 2 nights ago, she was so damn fine that I knew she was crazy after one day, and I had to literarly drag myself out of the damn bar because I still wanted to give it to her and she wanted to give it up
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Its not that anyone's getting upset, I just think its B.S. and that's all right. Hey that's great that you have your opinions and I have mine, that's what makes this forum so interesting.

I seen
A. Black guys who end up w/ HB9's. And this doesn't have to be a celebrity, it can be a football star in high school. Or captain of basketball team.

B. Black guys who will get w/ any scary white girl in sight. It's like they will get w/ any girl as long as she's white. I'm like buddy that isn't exactly a "trophy" girl, but good luck convincing 'em that.

DING DING DING


It's as simple as this... it's either an issue for you or it isn't.. if it is (i.e you go out looking for WHITE women or you have to approach the RACE issue or feel it's a negative) you already lost

Right now... there is a woman, who happens to be white that I meet last night (I have had a great week, I will post a FR later tonight when she leaves.. let me just say someone is loosing their spot in the rotation, I have some tough decisions to make) that is in my bathroom, met herl ast night, things clicked, took her back to my place... Very very good looking.

Not one time since yesterday has the race issue been brought up by her or by me, becuase it's a non issue. I'm me. She's her.

It's the guys that autmoatically think that "oh it's because I'm black isn't it" that have trouble getting with women or what the case may be.

I frankly don't give a damn if you "see" black guys and white women.. doesn't change what I do.. and not every girl I date is white, hell no.. it's just that I see a hot white woman, I willt alk to her.. it's just that i have run into a string of the lately

Seal is a ugly mother****er.. god DAMN he is ugly.. but kiss from a rose is one of my fav songs, one of the songs that got me motivated to learn how to play the piano.

One day seriously, I'm going to have to gather a buch of people from this site and just show them.. dude, it only matters what you think.

And yes I get rejected.. I've got some from the hall of fame that will have you rolling on the floor, but that happens with girls of all races, not just "white women"

If you guys would have saw the girl I REJECTED 2 nights ago, she was so damn fine that I knew she was crazy after one day, and I had to literarly drag myself out of the damn bar because I still wanted to give it to her and she wanted to give it up


speaking of, one of the things she told me was, verbatium, "It's not that I don't date black guys, it's just that i havent' found one that I was attacted to until I saw you and I started talking to you"

so then I asked her, if she would havef ound a guy attractive and he wasn't white, would she have a problem dating him, she said "of cousre"

Like I've been preaching... it has little to do with your RACE but more to do with YOU NOT WETTING HER PANTIES

One thing about me.. I'm ****y.. well not ****y, that's not the word.. I'm extremely sure of myself.. I say stuff sometimes that either pisses people off because they think i'm an *******, or they want to rip my clothes off and **** me on the sopt because they think it's soo sexy"

I take a great deal in what style of clothing I wear.. I dress up alot.. slacks, hardly ever wear blue jeans (I'm grown, I dress grown)

So I do alot better with older women, for some reason older white women, but the girl I am reffering to about the date the other day is 19
 

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I love these racial debates. Black guys screaming that they can get fine white women, but you never see them with them. And white guys screaming how black guys can't get white women, and even if they do..who cares?

It seem to me, black dudes think they have something to prove. Honestly, like silverback, I've never seen a quality white chick with an average black dude.

Black guys scream that white men get bent out of shape, or that we're jealous. We're not the ones flashing pictures of us with women to prove shyt.

I only joined this board last December, but I've been a lurker for about a year. There was a black dude named Zolo on here, who spewed about all the white tail he was getting. He posted pics, and even some where he was supposedly having sex with fine white chicks. Come to find out, his pics were from interracial sex websites.....LOLOLOLOL....It's pretty sad when black dudes have to put internet porn up and say it's them....

BWHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

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just to follow up on what SynTheUnscathed said, I'm feeling the bananna republic look, I just dont' shop there.. I actually like to shop for clothes and when I say that I mean, scavaging to put together outfits that I know that nobody else has.. I shop in Dallas, Memphis, ebay, Saks, wheverever.
 

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