"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To all the married guys in here.

FieldReportGuy7

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Do you still flirt with single women?

Do you flirt with single women just to hone your DJ skills?

I work on this stuff daily and I can't imagine not being able to" DJ" other chicks besides my significant other.

I think that's one of the reasons why sooo many married dudes becomes AFC even when they were DJs when single. They lose touch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I don't. Not because I'm against it, but because my focus in entirely of off woman and on to other pursuits.

At this point, I don't think I could even flirt successfully.

That being said, I'm not exactly worried about having to pick-up if I ever get divorced. I'm sure it's like riding a bike.
 

zekko

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I'm not married but I've lived with my current girlfriend for eight years now. I'm not particularly flirtatious by nature. I do, however, continue to interact, talk, and flirt with other girls as much as I can. However, I only indulge in a light level of flirting. I won't mislead a girl into thinking I am interested in her when I am not (since I'm exclusive with my girlfriend). There's a line there I don't cross.

I have a friend who is married though, and he is as big a flirt as I know. I've heard him say almost anything you can imagine to girls, very heavy, very sexual flirting, and a lot of compliments on the way they look. He asks them to run away with him. Every once in a while he'll throw in a "I love my wife and kids, I wouldn't ever really cheat on them". Admittedly, he is a male attention wh0re, he has to have their attention on him and does about anything to get it.

So there's two sides of the coin. And for what it's worth, I don't believe he would ever cheat on his wife.
 
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