"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FieldReportGuy7

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Do you still flirt with single women?

Do you flirt with single women just to hone your DJ skills?

I work on this stuff daily and I can't imagine not being able to" DJ" other chicks besides my significant other.

I think that's one of the reasons why sooo many married dudes becomes AFC even when they were DJs when single. They lose touch.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I don't. Not because I'm against it, but because my focus in entirely of off woman and on to other pursuits.

At this point, I don't think I could even flirt successfully.

That being said, I'm not exactly worried about having to pick-up if I ever get divorced. I'm sure it's like riding a bike.
 
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I'm not married but I've lived with my current girlfriend for eight years now. I'm not particularly flirtatious by nature. I do, however, continue to interact, talk, and flirt with other girls as much as I can. However, I only indulge in a light level of flirting. I won't mislead a girl into thinking I am interested in her when I am not (since I'm exclusive with my girlfriend). There's a line there I don't cross.

I have a friend who is married though, and he is as big a flirt as I know. I've heard him say almost anything you can imagine to girls, very heavy, very sexual flirting, and a lot of compliments on the way they look. He asks them to run away with him. Every once in a while he'll throw in a "I love my wife and kids, I wouldn't ever really cheat on them". Admittedly, he is a male attention wh0re, he has to have their attention on him and does about anything to get it.

So there's two sides of the coin. And for what it's worth, I don't believe he would ever cheat on his wife.
 
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