To all the guys that can't approach!!!

[MrNotebook]

nice.

 

[SinJester]

I hope u guys have known about Swinggcat. he talks about a theory called Prizability. ok my prob, i mix up prizability with approach, i think if u just make eye contact with a hot babe and tehn approach her, u r showing that u r not afraid of her but dont u think u r also showing that u think she is of ur level so if u dont have a superb apparent value, u r damn goin to be shot down, arent u?

I have't looked into Swiggcat but I'm not sure I like the whole concept of 'prizing'. It just reafirms negative and untrue beliefs that girls are above you, it keeps them on their pedestal. If you have that belief you are always going to be trying to make up ground and anything you do to 'DHV' will be fake. If you have that belief your mind will filter out everything but evidence to support. Don't ask us what works, go out and try it for yourself, you will find out what works a lot quicker then

 

[The Deacon]

I have't looked into Swiggcat but I'm not sure I like the whole concept of 'prizing'. It just reafirms negative and untrue beliefs that girls are above you, it keeps them on their pedestal. If you have that belief you are always going to be trying to make up ground and anything you do to 'DHV' will be fake. If you have that belief your mind will filter out everything but evidence to support. Don't ask us what works, go out and try it for yourself, you will find out what works a lot quicker then

Prizing is the opposite of that. Swinggcat is basically saying that you are the prize and not the woman.

 

[wolf116]

Most guys who think they have anxiety disorders only think they have a problem.

Yes...... It's a mental problem, something isn't actually stopping you except your brain. If you think you have anxiety and get all the symptoms, you have anxiety.

 

[schttrj]

Prizing is the opposite of that. Swinggcat is basically saying that you are the prize and not the woman.

thats wat im sayin. If I am the prize, say George Clooney, and i see a random HB 9 at a posh club or any other social situation, what would George Clooney. Ok, if he is wearing an Armani tux and just got down from a S-class Mercedes, then he can just make eye contact, give a sly cute smile and go and deliver an opener or just start talking as i believe is more credible. now, most of us i believe dont look like tom cruise and at least, im not a prince so that my dad doesnt even give me a car. now if we see from the girl's (>8) point of view, suppose we are dressed well and walking the walk and talking the talk and caught the attention fo the babe and she makes eye contact, now what? if u smile before her, she knows u have interest in her otherwise nobody just smiles at somebody from across the room on making eye contact and at this point, if u give her a nod, and approach her, do u feel the situation, u r moving into her reality and in a way, even if u walk like brad pitt, u r falling into the trap. AND AS FOR MY EXPERIENCE, I CAN BET MY LAST DOLLAR, THAT WHEN U APPROACH GIRLS, IT IS SOMEWHAT A NUMBER'S GAME, ONLY MADE A DIFFERENCE, IF YOU ARE AN ALPHAMALE, BUT IT IS MUCH MORE STRONGER IMPACT IF U LET HER WORK FOR YOU OR COME TO YOU AFTER GETTING HER ATTENTION OR JUST MAKING EYE CONTACT WITH YOU. my observation it is! here is where i feel the prizability concept ( that im the prize) comes in. if i am the PRIZE, why would i work for her? why not she? she can give me signals, then i can make a move? dont u think, only making initial eye contact with a HB > 8.5 and immediately, going for her or approaching is somewhat lowering your value? ok, heres a situation for the guys:

in a shopping mall or cafe, a HB was sitting and talking with her friend. just some near the next adjacent table, a guy (#1) was sitting and he makes eye contact with ther HB, smiles and moves over to the girls and deliver an opener, ok a very natural opener, that should work, benefit of doubt. and there was another guy (#2) over teh counter standing leaning on it in an angle to the HB, he makes eye contact with the HB, smiles and then turns away and gets into doing something else. who do you think will have a better impact on her? note: both are equally hot and dressed and smelled equally good but no reference to the money factor. i believe the guy#1 would have a better chance of creating attraction but still it is kind of the number game here and the guy#2 would establish himself as the prize here. im confused at this point.

 

[ChrizZ]

in a shopping mall or cafe, a HB was sitting and talking with her friend. just some near the next adjacent table, a guy (#1) was sitting and he makes eye contact with ther HB, smiles and moves over to the girls and deliver an opener, ok a very natural opener, that should work, benefit of doubt. and there was another guy (#2) over teh counter standing leaning on it in an angle to the HB, he makes eye contact with the HB, smiles and then turns away and gets into doing something else. who do you think will have a better impact on her? note: both are equally hot and dressed and smelled equally good but no reference to the money factor. i believe the guy#1 would have a better chance of creating attraction but still it is kind of the number game here and the guy#2 would establish himself as the prize here. im confused at this point.

Guy #3 would win.

The guy that laughs at guy #1 for overanalizing and waiting for EC and laughs at guy #2 for being a pu$$y.

Guy #3 wouldn't give a sh!t what would have the best impact on her. He is the chooser. He thinks that she should feel honored and privileged that she is approached by a guy like him. He would step the fvck over there and take what's rightfully his. With or without EC.

 

[schttrj]

so what u r sayin JUST DO IT! if it works out, good and if ti doesnt, better. Move on. theres not a specific way taht u should resort to, but only that girls like men who know what they want and go for waht they want. man, isnt it number game what u r suggesting at? since this is a discussion and i would really look forward to ur reply on this. i believe that the root of getting a girl is attraction and attraction is when u act like a prize and have a higher social value than hers.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

WE are the prize. That's why they dress up and put on layers of makeup.

Good point . I liked this part the most . Totally true . They are the ones that stand in front of mirror for hours before going out .

 

[ChrizZ]

so what u r sayin JUST DO IT! if it works out, good and if ti doesnt, better. Move on. theres not a specific way taht u should resort to, but only that girls like men who know what they want and go for waht they want. man, isnt it number game what u r suggesting at? since this is a discussion and i would really look forward to ur reply on this. i believe that the root of getting a girl is attraction and attraction is when u act like a prize and have a higher social value than hers.

attraction isn't nearly as important as comfort. That's where this game is won.

If you show that you are not intimidated by her at all and act dominant, she will feel attracted.

No such thing as "social value" in my reality. Fvck society.

It's about breaking social norms.

Stop playing the game, instead become the game.

Society tries to suck the life out of us and turn us into zombies. The only reason you can't approach is because the media brainwashed you into thinking that only men that fullfil a certain societal criteria (looks, money, fame) are allowed to date the hotties.

That's the best way to manipulate the masses into thinking that there is one simple equation to getting sex which is:

hard work = sex

However thats complete bullsh!t.

Don't see approaching as a numbers game. See it as a near life experience!!!

Now go out there and approach! Experience life!!!

The stranger walking down the street could be your next gf/fb!!!!!!

 

[schttrj]

ok, i take that, and i do agree that u need to have a solid connection, thats of utmost importance. i think i get that.

 

[YOUNG CASINOVA]

You Gotta Love Motivation! ... I Feel Like A Trip To The Mall Now! Lol

 

[Real_Deal]

Yes, I do.

I have a penis.

ME to, HIGH FIVE!