"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To all the guys that can't approach!!!

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You see two blonde bombshells with stone faces sitting at a table that seem to have a very intense discussion.

You think...

"Nah, this is not the time to approach. I don't want to interrupt them. That would be creepy and not very smart blalbalblabla"

FVCK THAT SH!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know what I see???????????

I see two little insecure girls that are prolly talking about absolutely stupid sh!t like TV celebrities or what kind of shoes to buy next. They have absolutely ZERO going on for them in their lives. They do nothing, but applying makeup all day long in hope that one day they'll get approached by a REAL MAN.

A man that is good looking, confident, dominant and open to any outcome, but attached to none.

WE are the prize. That's why they dress up and put on layers of makeup.

Society makes us believe that women are the prize that's why so many men supplicate to them and women are dying to meet a real man that is not a pu$$y and scared of them

It is your job as a man to bring some excitement and happiness into their boring lives.

I don't care what anyone says. WE do the choosing.

NOW GO OUT, APPROACH AND STOP MAKING EXCUSES ! ! !
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seconded.
 
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i like i like good stuff bro....
 
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thirded. Listen to ChrizZ fellas, he's one of the few men of credibility here at sosuave. As well the Deacon. And other guys i'll mention later, as they'll prolly respond to this thread.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ws

so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
 
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jcap said:
so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
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Yes, I do.

I have a penis.
 
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jcap said:
so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
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You're twisted. You already have shown your sad outlook.
 
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ChrizZ said:
Yes, I do.

I have a penis.
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Welcome to the male population, you deserve an award for having a penis!
 
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Kick your cultural beliefs to the side and change. Are you in the States?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
I agree with the general message but since when did being a man get equated with being a misogynist around here?
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Since today.

Bump.

There are still people out there that can't approach!
 
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most guys here have anxiety disorders. This is no going to help them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wolf116 said:
most guys here have anxiety disorders. This is no going to help them.
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neither will sosuave.

People like that have to confront their fears instead of posting here. Only then they should come back and ask for advice.
 
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Most guys who think they have anxiety disorders only think they have a problem.
 
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SinJester said:
Most guys who think they have anxiety disorders only think they have a problem.
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Yup, they resist what is. They have to say sh1t like, "I'm sorry, but I have axiety...poor poor pitiful me".


Guys on the down low say, "So I have anxiety...now what am I going to do about it".

Get a grip! Stop blaming and start doing, b1tches...
 
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I hope u guys have known about Swinggcat. he talks about a theory called Prizability. ok my prob, i mix up prizability with approach, i think if u just make eye contact with a hot babe and tehn approach her, u r showing that u r not afraid of her but dont u think u r also showing that u think she is of ur level so if u dont have a superb apparent value, u r damn goin to be shot down, arent u?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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