"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To all the guys that can't approach!!!

ChrizZ

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You see two blonde bombshells with stone faces sitting at a table that seem to have a very intense discussion.

You think...

"Nah, this is not the time to approach. I don't want to interrupt them. That would be creepy and not very smart blalbalblabla"

FVCK THAT SH!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know what I see???????????

I see two little insecure girls that are prolly talking about absolutely stupid sh!t like TV celebrities or what kind of shoes to buy next. They have absolutely ZERO going on for them in their lives. They do nothing, but applying makeup all day long in hope that one day they'll get approached by a REAL MAN.

A man that is good looking, confident, dominant and open to any outcome, but attached to none.

WE are the prize. That's why they dress up and put on layers of makeup.

Society makes us believe that women are the prize that's why so many men supplicate to them and women are dying to meet a real man that is not a pu$$y and scared of them

It is your job as a man to bring some excitement and happiness into their boring lives.

I don't care what anyone says. WE do the choosing.

NOW GO OUT, APPROACH AND STOP MAKING EXCUSES ! ! !
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Deacon

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Seconded.
 

moto

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i like i like good stuff bro....
 

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thirded. Listen to ChrizZ fellas, he's one of the few men of credibility here at sosuave. As well the Deacon. And other guys i'll mention later, as they'll prolly respond to this thread.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ws

so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
 

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jcap said:
so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
Yes, I do.

I have a penis.
 

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jcap said:
so let me guess, you are the president of a big fortune 500 corporation?

or you just another idiot guy who's just trying to graduate from college and thinks he has something going for him that the female doesn't have?

LOL
You're twisted. You already have shown your sad outlook.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Yes, I do.

I have a penis.
Welcome to the male population, you deserve an award for having a penis!
 

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Kick your cultural beliefs to the side and change. Are you in the States?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChrizZ

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
I agree with the general message but since when did being a man get equated with being a misogynist around here?
Since today.

Bump.

There are still people out there that can't approach!
 

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most guys here have anxiety disorders. This is no going to help them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wolf116 said:
most guys here have anxiety disorders. This is no going to help them.
neither will sosuave.

People like that have to confront their fears instead of posting here. Only then they should come back and ask for advice.
 

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Most guys who think they have anxiety disorders only think they have a problem.
 

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SinJester said:
Most guys who think they have anxiety disorders only think they have a problem.
Yup, they resist what is. They have to say sh1t like, "I'm sorry, but I have axiety...poor poor pitiful me".


Guys on the down low say, "So I have anxiety...now what am I going to do about it".

Get a grip! Stop blaming and start doing, b1tches...
 

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I hope u guys have known about Swinggcat. he talks about a theory called Prizability. ok my prob, i mix up prizability with approach, i think if u just make eye contact with a hot babe and tehn approach her, u r showing that u r not afraid of her but dont u think u r also showing that u think she is of ur level so if u dont have a superb apparent value, u r damn goin to be shot down, arent u?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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