"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To all of you who have or had girlfriends

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flyinshark

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I would like to know...is it possible that most girlfriends seem to get upset about the littlest things?

Example, i omitted to tell my gf that 2 of our friends hooked up and became boyfriend-girlfriend about 3 weeks ago, and my gf found that shocking that i didn't tell her. I mean, what's the big deal, i'm thinking?!! I wasn't hiding it, it just didn't pop up in the conversation for those 3 weeks. She stopped being upset soon after, but her initial reaction was to be a bit mad at me. I find that weird...

There's other examples too, all similar to this one. It never becomes a big deal, but she acts upset for like 3-5 minutes and i always find it unnecessary.

Is this normal girlfriend behavior?
 

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aftershock

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No, it is normal FEMALE behaviour. Some more than others though. Perhaps you have an oversensitive one.

I've trained mine not to get upset over little things. She knows that I don't tolerate such behaviour, and that ACTIONS have CONSEQUENCES.
 
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yea she plays mad when I bust her arse on something....but then again it makes her want me more..just dont say anything thats actually mean
 
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DJD...

Yes, it's normal. Forget about how you not telling her makes her mad - sorry, but there's a whole part of your life that she doesn't know about... if she's going to get mad over every single part of it as soon as you release it... too bad.
 
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