To all of you who have or had girlfriends

[flyinshark]

I would like to know...is it possible that most girlfriends seem to get upset about the littlest things?

Example, i omitted to tell my gf that 2 of our friends hooked up and became boyfriend-girlfriend about 3 weeks ago, and my gf found that shocking that i didn't tell her. I mean, what's the big deal, i'm thinking?!! I wasn't hiding it, it just didn't pop up in the conversation for those 3 weeks. She stopped being upset soon after, but her initial reaction was to be a bit mad at me. I find that weird...

There's other examples too, all similar to this one. It never becomes a big deal, but she acts upset for like 3-5 minutes and i always find it unnecessary.

Is this normal girlfriend behavior?

 

[aftershock]

No, it is normal FEMALE behaviour. Some more than others though. Perhaps you have an oversensitive one.

I've trained mine not to get upset over little things. She knows that I don't tolerate such behaviour, and that ACTIONS have CONSEQUENCES.

 

[frivolousz21]

yea she plays mad when I bust her arse on something....but then again it makes her want me more..just dont say anything thats actually mean

 

[diablo]

DJD...

Yes, it's normal. Forget about how you not telling her makes her mad - sorry, but there's a whole part of your life that she doesn't know about... if she's going to get mad over every single part of it as soon as you release it... too bad.