"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To all my people that suck at convos

RawkinKaoticStyle

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hey im trying this out and i think it really works

what im doing is calling local numbers of random shops and stores and just starting up conversations with random people and see how long i can last before they get bored and say their busy.

I mean its not like some prank call its just trying to start some friendly conversation with the workers, maybe youll get some cool stories.

I just called this fitness place and i found out the chick that i was talking to goes to my school , haha weird huh ( call fitness centers , hella chicks work there )

but maybe this doesent work and im wasting my time, i know there no body languahe shyt but for a person like me that gets nervous when im in conversation i can learn to relax.

you all should try!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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drixsa

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this is ok

but there is really no pressure in it

it may make your conversation skills a little better

but do you really have the time to just sit on the phone and dial random numbers?

take that time and go to the gym or do some real approaches
 

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Just go into voice chats to do that. Phoning random numbers and starting convo's on purpose, sounds kind of creepy to me.
 

RawkinKaoticStyle

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yeah maybe im a psycho rapist
 

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How about going to get coffee with a friend you kind of know, but don't really know. Then practice keeping the conversation going while you get to know them. This is ultimately what you do with girls you've just approached. You barely know them (cause you got their number), but when you go to get coffee or whatever on your first get-together, you're going to need to keep the convo going.

And search the forum for a technique called 'nouning'

Cgraz
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ethnomethodologist

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Seriously, how long has nouning been around?

I thought the technique was new silver... PM me
 
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