"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To all my people that suck at convos

RawkinKaoticStyle

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hey im trying this out and i think it really works

what im doing is calling local numbers of random shops and stores and just starting up conversations with random people and see how long i can last before they get bored and say their busy.

I mean its not like some prank call its just trying to start some friendly conversation with the workers, maybe youll get some cool stories.

I just called this fitness place and i found out the chick that i was talking to goes to my school , haha weird huh ( call fitness centers , hella chicks work there )

but maybe this doesent work and im wasting my time, i know there no body languahe shyt but for a person like me that gets nervous when im in conversation i can learn to relax.

you all should try!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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drixsa

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this is ok

but there is really no pressure in it

it may make your conversation skills a little better

but do you really have the time to just sit on the phone and dial random numbers?

take that time and go to the gym or do some real approaches
 

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Just go into voice chats to do that. Phoning random numbers and starting convo's on purpose, sounds kind of creepy to me.
 

RawkinKaoticStyle

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yeah maybe im a psycho rapist
 

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How about going to get coffee with a friend you kind of know, but don't really know. Then practice keeping the conversation going while you get to know them. This is ultimately what you do with girls you've just approached. You barely know them (cause you got their number), but when you go to get coffee or whatever on your first get-together, you're going to need to keep the convo going.

And search the forum for a technique called 'nouning'

Cgraz
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ethnomethodologist

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Seriously, how long has nouning been around?

I thought the technique was new silver... PM me
 
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