"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
To all my brothers in buffalo new York and the upper east coast stay safe this winter
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MatureDJ
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The apartment complex cleared the parking lot as much as possible, but I had to dig out my car - and I learned why there are so many stories of men getting a heart attack while shoveling snow - I couldn't believe how much that activity ramped up the cardiac rate!
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Canada right?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Yes, while I'm in Canada, we are actually south of some contintental US states (ie like North Dakota is north from me), but overall Michigan is to the west of us, and New York State is to the East if I was to talk in a hypothetical straight line in either direction. Southern Ontario just dips far down south. Buffalo is not a neighbour, but it is less than a 2 hour drive from here. It's is closer to drive to the States than it is to another province.
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Isn't there some big nuclear power plant in that area? I seem to remember this when I once drove from Windsor to Montréal.
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Yes, in Pickering, Ontario. However, its quite a distance from where I'm situated. It is going to shut down this decade. I did walk around the boardwalk near the plant in 2014 with my family and ex-wife. Have not been by those parts since. Have some family in Pickering.
