"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,

I'm leaving for Europe tomorrow morning for an orchestra tour. We're visiting Praque, Vienna, and Budapest among others. I checked some online weather forcasts and it shows temperatures in the negative. Here in California, it rarely closes 0 Celsius.

I'm wondering, what do you guys wear in Europe? I'm packing at the moment and I have no idea how to dress. I'd tremendously appreciate any feedback on what would be suitable to bring.

Thanks,
Eric
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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we wear clothes in europe, you know...jeans, tshirts, sweaters and stuff...


:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
we wear clothes in europe, you know...jeans, tshirts, sweaters and stuff...


:rolleyes:
I'm asking about the kinds of clothing, since it is going to be pretty damn cold in northeaster europe. I've never been in that kind of climate be4, so I'd like to know what kind of apparel is necessary.
 

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As i said, jeans, tshirts, sweaters etc...

Since east europe can be quite cold bring a good coat/jacket, scarf, gloves and a wool cap (or something along those lines) and you should be set. Some winter-boots would also be a good idea, and some long undies if you have any.
 

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Are you going to Prague first?
If so, try to keep most of your purchases in that country. The prices are outrageously low in comparison to the western world.

As for clothing, the thicker the better, but also the more the better (wearing multiple layers of clothing works quite well for me).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're thinking about sarging during your off-time from orchestra, you'd better have some style. Europeans are about 1000 times more stylish than Americans, so the ol' T-shirt and Jeans with sneakers combo won't hold water. Then again there's also a large minority that worship America, and also try to dress like American suburban kids. Maybe you could go hang out with them.
 

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Thanks guys,

I appreciate all the comments. I'm definitely not going to be fashionable because my wardrobe is all summer clothes, but it'll be ok. I'm bringing a digicam so I'll take pics for you guys. Be back in 9 days or so.



Eric
 

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Follow-up ?

So how was your trip? Did you hook up with some true wiggers?
 

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I'm American and was offered a job to work in Prague as an english language teacher. I didn't take it, but a few of my friends are working there now.

Basically, they wear western clothing that looks very american most of the time. They still have their tradition stuff they bring out every once in a while, though.
 

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Don't get me wrong on this rgeere, I pretty much know all those cities.

In fact it'd be pretty hard to find a true wigger down in the cities mentioned. In Paris, maybe... But you know, if you go to see somethin', chances are you'll see it. I'm curious whether the thread starter actually got to meet some 'hood wannabe kids down there.

To the clothing, metro areas speaking, I'd pretty much say most middle and east Europeans casually wear Italian/French influenced fashion. IMO the American-looking clothing from the beginning of 90s is long since gone. Business dress is out of question, virtually the same worldwide. The California guy should only've been prepared to not let off his jacket and shirt not even on afterparties.

A hip-hop/skate and generally hipster or underground scene is a way different story though. That's probably what you had in mind?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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