"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To all Europeans: Urgent help needed!

California Love

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Hey guys,

I'm leaving for Europe tomorrow morning for an orchestra tour. We're visiting Praque, Vienna, and Budapest among others. I checked some online weather forcasts and it shows temperatures in the negative. Here in California, it rarely closes 0 Celsius.

I'm wondering, what do you guys wear in Europe? I'm packing at the moment and I have no idea how to dress. I'd tremendously appreciate any feedback on what would be suitable to bring.

Thanks,
Eric
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Centaurion

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we wear clothes in europe, you know...jeans, tshirts, sweaters and stuff...


:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
we wear clothes in europe, you know...jeans, tshirts, sweaters and stuff...


:rolleyes:
I'm asking about the kinds of clothing, since it is going to be pretty damn cold in northeaster europe. I've never been in that kind of climate be4, so I'd like to know what kind of apparel is necessary.
 

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As i said, jeans, tshirts, sweaters etc...

Since east europe can be quite cold bring a good coat/jacket, scarf, gloves and a wool cap (or something along those lines) and you should be set. Some winter-boots would also be a good idea, and some long undies if you have any.
 

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Are you going to Prague first?
If so, try to keep most of your purchases in that country. The prices are outrageously low in comparison to the western world.

As for clothing, the thicker the better, but also the more the better (wearing multiple layers of clothing works quite well for me).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you're thinking about sarging during your off-time from orchestra, you'd better have some style. Europeans are about 1000 times more stylish than Americans, so the ol' T-shirt and Jeans with sneakers combo won't hold water. Then again there's also a large minority that worship America, and also try to dress like American suburban kids. Maybe you could go hang out with them.
 

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Thanks guys,

I appreciate all the comments. I'm definitely not going to be fashionable because my wardrobe is all summer clothes, but it'll be ok. I'm bringing a digicam so I'll take pics for you guys. Be back in 9 days or so.



Eric
 

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Follow-up ?

So how was your trip? Did you hook up with some true wiggers?
 

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I'm American and was offered a job to work in Prague as an english language teacher. I didn't take it, but a few of my friends are working there now.

Basically, they wear western clothing that looks very american most of the time. They still have their tradition stuff they bring out every once in a while, though.
 

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Don't get me wrong on this rgeere, I pretty much know all those cities.

In fact it'd be pretty hard to find a true wigger down in the cities mentioned. In Paris, maybe... But you know, if you go to see somethin', chances are you'll see it. I'm curious whether the thread starter actually got to meet some 'hood wannabe kids down there.

To the clothing, metro areas speaking, I'd pretty much say most middle and east Europeans casually wear Italian/French influenced fashion. IMO the American-looking clothing from the beginning of 90s is long since gone. Business dress is out of question, virtually the same worldwide. The California guy should only've been prepared to not let off his jacket and shirt not even on afterparties.

A hip-hop/skate and generally hipster or underground scene is a way different story though. That's probably what you had in mind?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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