"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To All Don Juans

ProudestMonkey1

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Hey everyone I'm new here, and consider myself a recovering AFC. I've had some successes but failures as well. With all the information availabe on this site and in the forums I hope to take my game to the next level, and just want to thank all of you who are in these forums. Your advice has always been right on the mark, and the level of maturity is shocking, especially when compared to other online forums. Keep up the good work and I look forward to continuing the DJ journey with everyone here.

Peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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triple_ultima

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WELCOME!

And, I hate to say, but the level of maturity in this forum drops to undesirably low levels at times...myself being a contributor to the decline...but most of the time we can be pretty civil.

(fake edit: except when girls come)
 

Jerky Boi

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Welcome to the forums :D It's great to finally see someone who admits he's a recovering AFC. I wish you luck on your endeavors and on your quest to be a DJ..
 

comic_relief

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Welcome to the boards

Few things to tell you.
1.) read the bible
2.) use the search function
3.) Then post whatever you want

Please do that in that order if you want to post because most things have already been discussed.

And again welcome to the DJ boards.
 
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