shiningshadow
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TO:All 'depressed' teens
- Thread starter Shapoopie
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
that's the most retarded thing i've ever heard. Sure it makes money for the school. It's also a fun time. there are lots of things to make money that are a good time that 95% of the world doesn't have. Movies, bowling, mini golf, computers, indoor plumbing, heating . . . I could go on for hours. Are all these things stupid and a waste of time too?
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
of course. come live with me in my field. if it gets cold you can dig a hole and huddle in it for warmth, which turns out to be great kino with girls!applaya said:
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Finally a post worth responding too again :wave:
Yes, if you are depressed it sucks but you know what? You cannot get depression from a girl that you just met. It is physically impossible but if you raise that girl onto a pedestal for oh I don't know about four years before asking her out. Then yes, you might get depressed (It happened to me and the only thing that got me out of it was finding this site).
live and let live
and dreamx: Read the bible and actually go get rejected ten times in one day. You will see it isn't that bad. Do not stop until you get ten.
Don't you think it is funny that you are being made fun of. Either you have an incredible amount of social anxiety or you are a troll. One or the other.
comic_relief
Yes, if you are depressed it sucks but you know what? You cannot get depression from a girl that you just met. It is physically impossible but if you raise that girl onto a pedestal for oh I don't know about four years before asking her out. Then yes, you might get depressed (It happened to me and the only thing that got me out of it was finding this site).
live and let live
and dreamx: Read the bible and actually go get rejected ten times in one day. You will see it isn't that bad. Do not stop until you get ten.
Don't you think it is funny that you are being made fun of. Either you have an incredible amount of social anxiety or you are a troll. One or the other.
comic_relief
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PeterNorthisawesome
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I'm a goth and I cut myself at night.. I hate everything... I write poems to express how I feel. Emo and goth music is the best. It's always raining in my mind.. 
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Oh I HATE GOTHS GO DIE! there's so many depressed b*tches out there it's so F*cking annoying. Pull yourself together you got balls don't you? I was expecting people to totally diss me after this reply but guess there's too many shy depressed ppl on this forum. :kick:PeterNorthisawesome said:I'm a goth and I cut myself at night.. I hate everything... I write poems to express how I feel. Emo and goth music is the best. It's always raining in my mind..
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
WTF?!?PeterNorthisawesome said:
comic_relief :crazy: