shiningshadow
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
of course. come live with me in my field. if it gets cold you can dig a hole and huddle in it for warmth, which turns out to be great kino with girls!applaya said:that's the most retarded thing i've ever heard. Sure it makes money for the school. It's also a fun time. there are lots of things to make money that are a good time that 95% of the world doesn't have. Movies, bowling, mini golf, computers, indoor plumbing, heating . . . I could go on for hours. Are all these things stupid and a waste of time too?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh I HATE GOTHS GO DIE! there's so many depressed b*tches out there it's so F*cking annoying. Pull yourself together you got balls don't you? I was expecting people to totally diss me after this reply but guess there's too many shy depressed ppl on this forum. :kick:PeterNorthisawesome said:I'm a goth and I cut myself at night.. I hate everything... I write poems to express how I feel. Emo and goth music is the best. It's always raining in my mind..![]()
WTF?!?PeterNorthisawesome said:Oh I HATE GOTHS GO DIE! there's so many depressed b*tches out there it's so F*cking annoying. Pull yourself together you got balls don't you? I was expecting people to totally diss me after this reply but guess there's too many shy depressed ppl on this forum. :kick: