"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tis the Season...
- Thread starter Hardrock
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A bottle will run $40-$80 dollars. Vera Wang Eau de Parfum Spray - 1.7 oz runs about $60.00.
She will or has been hinting at what she wants. Were you listening?
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I am The Game
VeryBadGirl
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Personally, I am a big fan of lingerie, books, jewelry, play/concert tickets, CD’s, etc.
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
1)Gifts that she can touch- material objects, such as jewelery, stuffed animals, etc.
2)Gifts that she can't touch but strictly gives her feelings - A day at the spa.
I've always found that the best gifts are a combination of both and the best are those leaning towards the type that sends emotions running though her like a bolt of lightning.
Please understand this....The amount of money you spend on her is not that important.
What is important is the thought that went into making or picking out the gift and setting up the situation in which the gift is given. BOTTOM LINE!
The more creative you are and the more thought you put into the gift, the more she will appreciate it.
Any AFC with a bank account can roll into Tiffanys and buy something he thinks is impressive and most likely she will love it!And of course...... she will expect NOTHING less next year and on every other occasion
Why does she like it? Because its a sign of all the time he had to bust his ass in order to pay for it. That time is what really counts and is the #1 underlying reason why she likes it.
What a real DJ knows is that you can acheive the same results without spending tons of cash by simply putting in the time. Not in the office or on the trading floor, but on thinking about her and the things that she loves and then showing her that you have picked up on them.
Be smooooth and creative (not cheesy)! Good luck.
Elimidate
Normally I don't do this but the above is Bulls**t. Of course it depends on the woman. If I buy a Tiffany bracelet for a woman then the chances she will appreciate it more than she will a gift soap basket. Again, it depends on the woman. MOST women will take the Tiffany bracelet over the Homemade soap basket any day.
I just quizzed a girl on the job and she said that she wouldn't mind the gift basket but she would APPRECIATE the Bracelet.
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I am The Game
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
I used this once, and it worked extremely well, and I plan on using it again. Get out your video camera (or borrow one) and make her a video. No, not a "close & sexual encounter" video, just do some wacky stuff on it. If you have a talent, record some of that. Pull out some pics of you in your younger days (not the ones with your ex), and put together a slideshow of them.
This kind of a gift shows thought, creativeness, and is extremely inexpensive. Again, this is for LTRs only!!
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"Feelin' sleazy dirty,
Feelin' kinda mean,
Feelin' up, down & in-between,
Feelin' kinda ****y
Feel I'm on the rise,
Feel myself a-coming between your thighs" - Jackyl
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
I can see where your coming from if you gave her a gift basket.
I agree she would definitely appreciate the braclet more because it's more expensive and required more money/effort to buy.
Here's the point:
I wasn't making a comparison between two material objects, my point was to compare something of high material value (bracelet)to a gift that has a lot of thought and careful planning put behind it.
Expensive gifts are sometimes used to impress a women when the same can be acheive by using a little forthought and creativity.
Ask the girl that you just quizzed if she would rather have the bracelet OR this:
(This is for a LTR)
One night you take her up to the highest elevated point in your city. Tell her you have a surprise.... Then for her gift, tell her to look up a star you've picked out and make a wish. Then tell her that's your star!
Now show her the certificate you bought from the international star registry where for a small fee, they will name a star after her (or any name you give them). Now, no matter where the two are you are, or how far apart, you can look up in the sky and wish on the star!
LOL I'm awaiting her response.......
djmanagement
Don Juan
Buy her a star....interesting!Originally posted by Elimidate:
Paradox,
Then tell her that's your star!
Now show her the certificate you bought from the international star registry where for a small fee, they will name a star after her (or any name you give them). Now, no matter where the two are you are, or how far apart, you can look up in the sky and wish on the star!
LOL I'm awaiting her response.......
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RatnyCage
New Member
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
Agreed, that's why I suggested the video. The great thing about a gift that reminds them of you is even after they dump your ass, they'll be stuck with that haunting them MWAHAHAHAA!
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"Feelin' sleazy dirty,
Feelin' kinda mean,
Feelin' up, down & in-between,
Feelin' kinda ****y
Feel I'm on the rise,
Feel myself a-coming between your thighs" - Jackyl
Both my GF and I play piano, although she seems to think I play better than her. To go along with this, she loves listening to me play. Now, there's a current guy out there named Jim Brickman, and if you haven't heard his stuff it's sappy love/romance/emotional pop piano music, very often just instrumental with no words. I happen to own a book of music that he wrote, and I play the music for her a bit. Here's the clintcher.
For christmas, I plan on getting her one of his cd's, which not only is great mood music, but will make her think of me by absently recognizing the different songs that are playing, and the differences between the CD and how I play them....
Oh, btw... the star idea was one of the best things I've ever seen in my life.
2 Ideas though:
1) do it in a rural area where you can see the stars better.
2) do some research before hand and make sure you don't pick a star that's not visible year round. That would just suck. You have her looking at this star, thinking of you, yet it only appears during the summer. He he he... just a tho't
Just found out another thing too...
My friend said this came for a movie, so you might wanna make sure she hasn't, and will not ever see that movie... haha
Damn, you should warn us when you plagiarise romance techniques
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.