"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tired of this stupid test

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When a girl is all warmed up to you then pushes you away and ignores you its obviously a test, this happened to me in almost all one night, we havent talked since the night which has been about 3 days, which is normall alot for us. Im planning on calling her tomorrow if she doesnt talk to me first what do u think...this pisses me off:box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PumpingIron13 said:
When a girl is all warmed up to you then pushes you away and ignores you its obviously a test, this happened to me in almost all one night, we havent talked since the night which has been about 3 days, which is normall alot for us. Im planning on calling her tomorrow if she doesnt talk to me first what do u think...this pisses me off:box:
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Are you sure it is a test and that you didn't do anything to screw it up? Especially if you two haven't talked in about 3 days?
 
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Well why whould i chase after her if out of nowhere she got cold, I am positive that I couldnt have done one thing to screw it up. I know my friend mightve gotten to her a bit cuz she was worried about her friend but thats no reason for her to shut down completly to me like that. If she did that cuz she doesnt wanna be around me n my friends or something or is afraid of a relationship then she can take a hike for all i care, its summer and im not gunna wait around for one woman
 
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Dude i gave alllot of info about the whole deal in the dj discussion forum but it basically got ignored so I tried to be very brief...go here to see exactly how it went down http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101830

And seriously if shes over me I wont be bummed or anything I just dont wanna waste my time, you can even goto myspace and look at the comments that shes been leaving me like shvt about kissing and inside jokes we have but it all stopped
 
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