"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tired of this flaking sh*t

nismo-4

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Okay so here goes. I had dates set up for this whole week courtesy of myspace. Every time I wanted to meet up, I got flaked on. :cry: I'm so tired of this sh*t and I can't use the Atlanta chat lines for free cuz my phone's a different area code. 15 cents a minute...adds up real quick.

But how do you get a date (myspace, real life) set up and the woman doesn't flake on you? What are your methods?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did you build enough rapport with them to actually want to come out? Sounds like you simply inflated a bunch of eWh0res ego's.

A woman who wants to see you will make time.

There is no method, its more of a way of being, and I've never been flaked on by a girl I've chatted up in real life. So .02 cents.
 

nismo-4

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Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
 

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everyone who I've talked to seems to meet flaky women on myspace. They are either psycho or something else. The good ones are the ones who arent meeting up with you.
I've been on Friendfinder for the last two months as part of my summer excitement program and everytime I get a bite from that site the girls seem to not want to talk to me long enough to meet up or anything.
I've met up with one girl on Okcupid, but she turned out to be seeing another guy like a week later... she wanted to f**k and everything. Not cool.

But it turned out that I met a great girl who was way more my style at my friends party in the city. So thats my answer to you, look for parties, even if its just to talk to new women. I would say thats your best bet for a good thing to get going. I've given up on the other methods since then, they simply dont work.
 

DonGorgon

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nismo-4 said:
Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
Yup there is lots of money to be made be capitalizing on male desperation....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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