"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tired of this flaking sh*t

nismo-4

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Okay so here goes. I had dates set up for this whole week courtesy of myspace. Every time I wanted to meet up, I got flaked on. :cry: I'm so tired of this sh*t and I can't use the Atlanta chat lines for free cuz my phone's a different area code. 15 cents a minute...adds up real quick.

But how do you get a date (myspace, real life) set up and the woman doesn't flake on you? What are your methods?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did you build enough rapport with them to actually want to come out? Sounds like you simply inflated a bunch of eWh0res ego's.

A woman who wants to see you will make time.

There is no method, its more of a way of being, and I've never been flaked on by a girl I've chatted up in real life. So .02 cents.
 

nismo-4

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Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
 

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everyone who I've talked to seems to meet flaky women on myspace. They are either psycho or something else. The good ones are the ones who arent meeting up with you.
I've been on Friendfinder for the last two months as part of my summer excitement program and everytime I get a bite from that site the girls seem to not want to talk to me long enough to meet up or anything.
I've met up with one girl on Okcupid, but she turned out to be seeing another guy like a week later... she wanted to f**k and everything. Not cool.

But it turned out that I met a great girl who was way more my style at my friends party in the city. So thats my answer to you, look for parties, even if its just to talk to new women. I would say thats your best bet for a good thing to get going. I've given up on the other methods since then, they simply dont work.
 

DonGorgon

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nismo-4 said:
Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
Yup there is lots of money to be made be capitalizing on male desperation....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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