"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tired of this flaking sh*t

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Okay so here goes. I had dates set up for this whole week courtesy of myspace. Every time I wanted to meet up, I got flaked on. :cry: I'm so tired of this sh*t and I can't use the Atlanta chat lines for free cuz my phone's a different area code. 15 cents a minute...adds up real quick.

But how do you get a date (myspace, real life) set up and the woman doesn't flake on you? What are your methods?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you build enough rapport with them to actually want to come out? Sounds like you simply inflated a bunch of eWh0res ego's.

A woman who wants to see you will make time.

There is no method, its more of a way of being, and I've never been flaked on by a girl I've chatted up in real life. So .02 cents.
 

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Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
 

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everyone who I've talked to seems to meet flaky women on myspace. They are either psycho or something else. The good ones are the ones who arent meeting up with you.
I've been on Friendfinder for the last two months as part of my summer excitement program and everytime I get a bite from that site the girls seem to not want to talk to me long enough to meet up or anything.
I've met up with one girl on Okcupid, but she turned out to be seeing another guy like a week later... she wanted to f**k and everything. Not cool.

But it turned out that I met a great girl who was way more my style at my friends party in the city. So thats my answer to you, look for parties, even if its just to talk to new women. I would say thats your best bet for a good thing to get going. I've given up on the other methods since then, they simply dont work.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Aw, b**ch!

I'm gonna have to stop messing with online girls. Rapport and social value barely helps there. Singlesnet, fling.com, hornymatches.com, webdate, all them sites are scams and it's a bot that sends you messages to ultimately get in your wallet and not your pants.

I'm only gonna mess with real life chicks, easier to get and face 2 face.
Yup there is lots of money to be made be capitalizing on male desperation....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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