I'm not gonna make this another "woe is me" posts but I am seriously getting sick of the game. I had been meeting a lot of girls the last month or two, but it really sucks to find out most of them are freaking stupid and boring. I was doing the whole running game thing and then after I make out with a girl or get some action and what not I feel like I just kissed a piece of trash. I'd rather find a girl I can click with and actually have fun being around than getting action any day of the week.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tired of the game
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonJuanMonk
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Find some hobbies besides dating.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do that and start using a different type of bait... It's frustrating but it's a fact of life.
So pimp its scary
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I was going to write a whole long spiel to try and bring some life back into you instead...
Mr. Cardio
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not everybody is serious about a relationship, and going deep and stuff........when you meet girls, some just wanna keep you as a fvck buddy, then some wanna keep you as a fvck buddy and get to know you and help you personally. If all you are getting is fvck buddies, keep them, and meet their friends.. the key is attraction, obviously you know about that, so just keep going through the chicks until you come across one thats serious....you are okay buddy.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
everywomanshero
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game sucks but not comparatively
Yes, the game seems to suck when you're not getting exactly what you want. However, compared to paying child support &
alimony it's pretty damn cool.
Yes, the game seems to suck when you're not getting exactly what you want. However, compared to paying child support &
alimony it's pretty damn cool.
white_hype
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I know how you feel... I meet lots of girls and I like them for like 3 weeks then they get really old to me. Very few I feel are actually worth my time despite the fact that they are hot and seem "normal" or whatever. I felt the way you did for about 2 years, but I felt those emotions a lot more severely.
For instnace:
There was this really hot girl that all my friends wanted. THey all were trying to game her but none ended up "getting" with her. I didn't try b/c there are other girls and I didn't want to compete with my friends who obviously like her so much. A year later I see her at a party, still looking hot. I approached her and talked with her for like 20-30 mins and it went really well so i got her number. We ended up hooking up that week (just kissing and feeling up). I started to think this girl was pretty cool/intriguing. Well I ended up fvcking her and she would tell me how much she liked me and how different i was etc etc, supplicating like crazy to me and I lost ALL interest in her. After that night I didn't even want to call her/talk to her ever again. I just lost all interest in her... and this type of thing has happened A LOT of times with girls... WEIRD
I have only met 2 girls in my life who I REALLY LIKED. 1 got away (she was a SHB and I didn't have enough game to keep her... dudes hit on her EVERYWHERE we went together... it was a lot of ****ing effort). girl #2 and I dated for a while but she goes to school in a different state now so we are friends (I don't have feelings for her anymore)...
What I realised though was I was putting to much effort/expecations on meeting girls all the time. I took 6 months off from even caring if i hooked up with a girl and focused on ME. (I still hooked up with girls but I rarely thoght about actively sarging besides when I really was intrigued by a girl). I learned more in those 6 months about myself/life/learning stuff than I had in the 2 yrs before that. I feel as if now I am reborn and had been sort of "coasting" in the past. NOt really taking time to reflect/learn/etc. I am happy all the time, never thinking negatively, and life is so different now (I was still super happy back then, but its just different now that I understand A LOT of things I didn't back then). Now whenever I go out I LOVE IT. FVCKING LOVE IT.
Pm me if u want I am rambling now, but I could talk forever on this