I'm not gonna make this another "woe is me" posts but I am seriously getting sick of the game. I had been meeting a lot of girls the last month or two, but it really sucks to find out most of them are freaking stupid and boring. I was doing the whole running game thing and then after I make out with a girl or get some action and what not I feel like I just kissed a piece of trash. I'd rather find a girl I can click with and actually have fun being around than getting action any day of the week.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tired of the game
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuanMonk
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Find some hobbies besides dating.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do that and start using a different type of bait... It's frustrating but it's a fact of life.
So pimp its scary
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I was going to write a whole long spiel to try and bring some life back into you instead...
Mr. Cardio
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not everybody is serious about a relationship, and going deep and stuff........when you meet girls, some just wanna keep you as a fvck buddy, then some wanna keep you as a fvck buddy and get to know you and help you personally. If all you are getting is fvck buddies, keep them, and meet their friends.. the key is attraction, obviously you know about that, so just keep going through the chicks until you come across one thats serious....you are okay buddy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
everywomanshero
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game sucks but not comparatively
Yes, the game seems to suck when you're not getting exactly what you want. However, compared to paying child support &
alimony it's pretty damn cool.
Yes, the game seems to suck when you're not getting exactly what you want. However, compared to paying child support &
alimony it's pretty damn cool.
white_hype
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I know how you feel... I meet lots of girls and I like them for like 3 weeks then they get really old to me. Very few I feel are actually worth my time despite the fact that they are hot and seem "normal" or whatever. I felt the way you did for about 2 years, but I felt those emotions a lot more severely.
For instnace:
There was this really hot girl that all my friends wanted. THey all were trying to game her but none ended up "getting" with her. I didn't try b/c there are other girls and I didn't want to compete with my friends who obviously like her so much. A year later I see her at a party, still looking hot. I approached her and talked with her for like 20-30 mins and it went really well so i got her number. We ended up hooking up that week (just kissing and feeling up). I started to think this girl was pretty cool/intriguing. Well I ended up fvcking her and she would tell me how much she liked me and how different i was etc etc, supplicating like crazy to me and I lost ALL interest in her. After that night I didn't even want to call her/talk to her ever again. I just lost all interest in her... and this type of thing has happened A LOT of times with girls... WEIRD
I have only met 2 girls in my life who I REALLY LIKED. 1 got away (she was a SHB and I didn't have enough game to keep her... dudes hit on her EVERYWHERE we went together... it was a lot of ****ing effort). girl #2 and I dated for a while but she goes to school in a different state now so we are friends (I don't have feelings for her anymore)...
What I realised though was I was putting to much effort/expecations on meeting girls all the time. I took 6 months off from even caring if i hooked up with a girl and focused on ME. (I still hooked up with girls but I rarely thoght about actively sarging besides when I really was intrigued by a girl). I learned more in those 6 months about myself/life/learning stuff than I had in the 2 yrs before that. I feel as if now I am reborn and had been sort of "coasting" in the past. NOt really taking time to reflect/learn/etc. I am happy all the time, never thinking negatively, and life is so different now (I was still super happy back then, but its just different now that I understand A LOT of things I didn't back then). Now whenever I go out I LOVE IT. FVCKING LOVE IT.
Pm me if u want I am rambling now, but I could talk forever on this