"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tired of slvts I want a good girl...

Moofahsa

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I have come very long way since starting on this forum. Scored some HB9's, I'm at 24 lays and don't really feel the need to keep going out looking for more one night stands. I'm ready to find a stable long term relationship as I have a 1.5 year old daughter that I have full custody of. My party/club days are over, I work...have my own house...last semester of college.... not only wanting to settle down because of my daughter, I just feel like it is time to officially start my life.

I'm on campus 2 days a week, I figure I'll have to keep my eyes peeled for a good one. Without sounding like an over confident person I know I am good looking, successful and have good charisma...I just seem to keep finding these attractive nutcases with a variety of issues. Same girl different name...everytime. UGH
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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trent81

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Good luck, I am looking for the same thing. In this day and age, I believe our chances are at about 5.6 percent. I wish you well.
 

Allurre

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You'll definitely find out that suits you, if you know where to look.

Don't wind up in clubs. Lean towards bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores etc.
 

Paintballguy

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Allurre said:
You'll definitely find out that suits you, if you know where to look.

Don't wind up in clubs. Lean towards bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores etc.
Very good advice. I was in the same boat as you, but I was just looking in the wrong places. Bars, clubs, etc... The chances of meeting a quality chick in those places are very very slim. Most of the girls there are slvts or girls just looking for some fun.

I ended up meeting my current gf through friends, and she is like the ideal dating type. Don't stress over it. You will find something eventually.
 
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