"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tired of slvts I want a good girl...

Moofahsa

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I have come very long way since starting on this forum. Scored some HB9's, I'm at 24 lays and don't really feel the need to keep going out looking for more one night stands. I'm ready to find a stable long term relationship as I have a 1.5 year old daughter that I have full custody of. My party/club days are over, I work...have my own house...last semester of college.... not only wanting to settle down because of my daughter, I just feel like it is time to officially start my life.

I'm on campus 2 days a week, I figure I'll have to keep my eyes peeled for a good one. Without sounding like an over confident person I know I am good looking, successful and have good charisma...I just seem to keep finding these attractive nutcases with a variety of issues. Same girl different name...everytime. UGH
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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trent81

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Good luck, I am looking for the same thing. In this day and age, I believe our chances are at about 5.6 percent. I wish you well.
 

Allurre

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You'll definitely find out that suits you, if you know where to look.

Don't wind up in clubs. Lean towards bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores etc.
 

Paintballguy

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Allurre said:
You'll definitely find out that suits you, if you know where to look.

Don't wind up in clubs. Lean towards bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores etc.
Very good advice. I was in the same boat as you, but I was just looking in the wrong places. Bars, clubs, etc... The chances of meeting a quality chick in those places are very very slim. Most of the girls there are slvts or girls just looking for some fun.

I ended up meeting my current gf through friends, and she is like the ideal dating type. Don't stress over it. You will find something eventually.
 
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